Funny question right? This was the question asked at a programme i attended, can you marry the you, you know I ask you again. Ehmm! Those that are married, you can still answer that.
Most times singles often make their criteria, I want the guy to be this, i want the guy to be that, i want the lady to be this, i want the lady to be that, what we fail to forget is that in as much as we want that “perfect dream man/woman” we must also strive to be what other people want to.
Work on your self also, I am sure some people will say “why not, I can definitely marry me” why some will go “neverrrr, I can’t marry me and would definitely not advice any one to marry me”.
We must strive to work on that side of us that pollutes the good side of us. We must get the “she is a nice person and not she is a nice person BUT her anger is terrible”. I know no one is perfect, but we can work on our weaknesses.
Happy new month and may this month bring good tidings to us all 😊