WHY LADIES SHOULD GET PREGNANT BEFORE MARRIAGE.
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Aren't you tired, just as I am, of hearing about guys demanding for sex from ladies? Many ladies have ended relationships as a result of this demand.
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Sometimes, the ladies also end relationship due to pressure from the family or the man asking her to get pregnant first before he decides to put-a-ring-on-it? If you're like me, I believe you should be tired of hearing this already.
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So, I decided to simply advice ladies to get pregnant before they decide to get married. As a matter of fact, every lady should settle in her heart to be pregnant in the relationship they decide to venture into. Now, I am confusing you right?
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I'm not talking about the pregnancy that results from sexual intercourse, I'm talking about being "pregnant" with God, with Vision, Wisdom, a sense of Direction and Purpose.
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Here's what I learned from Mary
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You see, Mary was already engaged to Joseph when she got pregnant by no natural means, and suddenly Mr. Joseph wanted to do away with her. Well, that's what most men do (even those who may be responsible for it). In this case, Joseph was justified. Heck! He had no hand in this one.
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This is the point.
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Ladies, before you get into any relationship, be PREGNANT with purpose. Be a carrier of God's seed. Whether or not you are a virgin, be a woman of wisdom. Be loaded with ideas, skills and knowledge such that when any man like me meets you, he will have to think twice (sorry several times) before he dares mention the idea of sex to you.
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Just as Joseph was afraid to take Mary to himself as a wife because of what she was carrying, even so men should have to be convinced by God before they come to take your hand in marriage.
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The simple question I want to ask is:
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Ladies, what are you carrying?
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Are you only carrying beautiful looks, attires, curves and gadgets, or are you loaded with substance that is capable of attracting Kings?
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Ladies, you should be so loaded that no man will be able to treat you anyhow. Despite the fact that Mary was pregnant, Joseph couldn't get himself to shame her.
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I love how David describes Daughters in the Psalms. While he referred to sons as "Plants grown up in their youths," he referred to daughters as "cornerstones furnished after the similitude of the palaces." Hallelujah!
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Ladies, you are designed to be fit for a palace. You are a queen.
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Don't go into any relationship without being pregnant first. By the way, it is impossible to get pregnant when you are already pregnant, right?
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Don't let any man abort your pregnancy. Joseph chose to restrain himself until Jesus was born.
Note: Love is not a feeling you feel when you feel a feeling you have never felt before.
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