Hello everyone, its 
I've pondered on this lately and I've realised that being human conflict is our everyday routine, this is a situation where two individuals, parties, or groups disagree to agree, often times could get violent in the process..
But just stop to think!
IS CONFLICT REALLY NECCESARY ALL THE TIME?
I can't give answer to that because some would say YES it is while other might say NO. I don't know your what your view on it is but to me however, conflict is never really the way to sort issues out as matured individual.
HOW DOES GOD SEE CONFLICT?
The Bible in Amos chapter 3 verses 3 says "can two work together except they be agree"? Even in proverbs chapter 15 vs 1we could find some interesting word from God there!...
This goes a long way to show that even God hates conflict...
HOW DO YOU FEEL WHEN INSULTED
I can't say how you feel but one thing I'm certain of is that I do not like being insulted or oppressed, it infuriate me at times, which I'm sure it does as well to most of us... Knowing that I feel this way when insulted why would I want to insult another individual like me? It is inhumane to do to other what you wouldn't want others to do to you.
There is power in the tongue, when we later negative words to another human being like us, it could completely shatter the persons mood or even the persons day... In every individual no matter how terrible he/she might appear to be, there is always a soft spot and that soft spot is where you find there weaknesses to which you can get through to them from. To tap into that soft spot harsh words isn't the remedy, gentle and soft spoken word is the key.
IS CONFLICT A SHOW OF STRENGTH?
I can confidently answer this by saying HELL NO!!!..
Conflict only displays immaturity and even make one loose his or her self respect..
And please let's not forget the upcoming generation, let's ask ourselves
who would they look up to?
who would mentor them?
what will they remember you for?
I know one man cannot completely change the world he/she can only try, but if we can work on ourselves first, only then I repeat only then can we change the world.
thank you and God bless you all