Love is naturally felt by anyone, owned by anyone, and we don't know when that taste will grow and anchor to whose heart. However, when we are given such opportunities, remind the heart not to be rash about expressing it before we ask the owner of love.
Ask God through prayer, because endeavoring through prayer will really make us confident in choosing if it is already steady in heart. After all, if prayer has been mobilized, don't worry about not giving way, because God will definitely direct us to the goodness of His love.
So what if we only dare to greet him always in prayer? And there is no courage to express? Especially if we are a woman, then is it worth the feeling?
Yes it's very appropriate, why not ?! Because the best love letter is to involve God to look after it, before everything is truly real.
When one of us said "honey, I can only hope in the hands of God, because I don't have the courage to say it".
Okay, it's okay to do so, because it is hoped that only with prayer efforts is better and more noble, than busy holding hands but not yet lawful.
Yes, loving only limited to prayer is greater, than rash in saying love, expressing a roaring sense, but not in a halal way.
And you also do not need to be shy about asking God the best, because if it is good then God will allow you. He whom you ask will really be God given to you, if indeed he is the best for your life.
So before you express a sense that roars in your heart, first ask Allah in prayer and the like, because if it is already good then God will show you His best way.
Therefore, you don't need to hesitate in asking, because Allah is perfect in fulfilling his servant's request. Yes, that's right, God will give whatever you ask easily and cheaply, if that's the best for you.
Conversely, if indeed he is not the best for you, even though it is true you have asked him very sincerely and patiently, then really he will not stand with you, but God will replace someone who is better for you.
Then what are the benefits of loving in prayer? That is, you will not get sin even though your love will be even greater, and you will not be ashamed if later God rejects your love proposal.
Because he who you know will never know how you put feelings on him.
So, be wise when you have a feeling of love in your heart, don't be careless and don't do it until you want to hurry up to have it. Involve God first, so that God sets your heart to choose the best with no doubt.
Sow in prayer, because if it is a match then when only you love in silence, then surely God will give you the way to unite.