How to Keep a Man

Boys have needs like girls do. There will never be a perfect guy, but one thing is for sure, not all boys are the same. It is too lame to generalize. Maybe, you just love the wrong guy.

Here is the cold harsh truth ladies. Being pretty does not keep man. Being smart does not keep a man. Being sexy does not keep a man. Being hot does not keep a man. And being good in bed does not a keep man. 

So what are the things to really keep a man? 

1. Do not keep on repeating things that already happened in the past. He has learned from them. He has become mature. And never ever bring up issues in the past again and again. 

2. Surprise him. It is not only boys who need efforts to make the relationship work. Girls should do the same. 

3. Understand him that he is not perfect. He gets tired. He gets stressed. He gets pissed off. He has lapses but he is trying his best.

 4. Lower your pride as well. It is not always the time that he needs to adjust with you. You do your part as well to make relationship work. 

5. Understand that boys will have time for their friends as well. Do not guard him or do not be too strict when he plans to go out with his friends. Give him your trust and everything shall follow.

6. Ask him on how his day went and make him feel that it was just a bad day and it gets better.

 7. Make sure that you are loyal to him and you are not playing with any other team. Give him the assurance that he is the one and only and no other team. 

8. Cook him tasty food to really win his heart. If you don't know how to cook yet, bring him to his favorite restaurant and eat together with his favorite foods.

9. Appreciate his efforts everyday. 

10. And make him feel that he is one of your priorities not just an option. 

To sum up all of these things, just remember that all of us are unique and we have our own special way of keeping our man and it doesn't mean that we have to follow these things because the truth is, if the man really loves you, no need to make extra efforts just to let him stay, he will naturally stay and be there for you through thick and thin. 

And always remember just be you, be natural as long as you have done your part as his better half. 

Happy Valentines in Advance Steemians 😘 

B