This is a process that not only deals with emotional pain and a broken heart, but that implies changes in everyday life and in social life. Learn how to recover your life after the end of a relationship with many years.
Finish a long loving relationship can be terrifying in many ways... In addition to the sadness of the end, there's always issues related with the day to day of your life, with the people with whom is usually, sites that usually attend, etc. The worst thing is that it becomes even more difficult to return to the world of seduction and conquest after some years without practice in this world. Here are some tips to return to the world of singles:
Reinvent yourself
How often have you thought about changing your behavior, your habits or your routine, but just not to do so because of the relationship you were? How often you felt stuck or tired? A separation is the ideal time to go for new projects! Enjoy and do everything you always wanted: change your look, go travel, go to the gym or spend hours in shopping center shopping with your friends. All these changes will bring you fresh air and cause you to meet different people. A new dose of energy will take hold of you and will cause the opposite sex to earn interest
The art of conquest is not lost
you may feel you have lost the skills to face the unknown and start a conversation with someone interesting, or that your tactics of achievements are outdated, but no! The first thing is to rely on their own instincts and in your body language. If someone is interested in you, let the memory work and bring back your tactics of conquest. Believe me, they are there, stored in some corner and will resurface at the right time.
Say no to clichés
If you think you have no seduction skills, just be yourself. Do not try to become someone who is not from night to day. Being shy or intelligent is often more charming than become a 'Don Juan'
Dig up your schedule
Please talk with friends who had before beginning your relationship - at least those who did not marry. Enjoy the social networks to find people that do not track and find pleasure in activities with these people. So, you will increase your social spectrum and, in this way, you will know new people.
Learn from your previous relationship
You may not want to hear about your ex and think you lost a lot of time next to that person. Know that it is not so. During this time, certainly we learned a lot about relationships. After years of history, probably know much more about relationships than your friends. Topics such as female behavior (or male), quarrels, patience, pride, in-laws ... you know how to deal with all this. Use your knowledge when looking for a new partner ... previous experience is golden.
Look behind you, and earn boost
return your eyes to the days prior to your relationship. Certainly that has changed, but it is possible that the relive these moments find plenty of raw material for new life. Remember how it was, what you liked, what projects you had. To recall your history, you will discover a style that might serve for the new times.
We are all vulnerable
When you feel fear or shyness in time to approach someone interesting, remember that probably that other person is also vulnerable. Maybe that person is not out of a relationship, but certainly have had their stories and have seen your heart broken for an important relationship. You don't think that you are the only person capable in the world only because the moment you're having.
Take a chance, open your heart and make this sad moment an opportunity to see the world with other eyes.