I have come to understand that love is non-negotiable. It cannot be controlled by the mind.i will like to put it this way love is like a reflex action without you being able to control it even when it is not being reciprocated.
Often time people get to say love hurts but they fail to understand that love brings happiness, laughter,smile peace etc the actual thing that hurts is loneliness.
So from this day I have chosen to LIVE LAUGH and LOVE