Among many stories and experiences there is known how the two extremes are always very close. As it has happened to love and love a person, and the next moment not wanting to know anything about it, I have also known although very little of a person who hates or just does not get along with another and at another time these people are lifted from wonder. The reason why this happens I still do not know, but I have my theories.
We must bear in mind that there are different types of love, it is not the same as we want our family or friends and how we want our partner, if you want three different ways of wanting. It is equal hatred, since it is the indifference or aversion towards something or person, this has a special ingredient and is that in this case this person is wished badly.
From love to hate!
I know many wonder how this is possible? good friends, let me tell you what it is. I think it happens more because of that trust and feelings deposited in a person or people, that being betrayed create this toxic feeling. It is difficult today and always to find someone with whom to share interests, to get along and not only that, can complement one life with the other, it is not easy and sometimes when we are already in love and we see everything that we imply we realize I even have to work to forge what you have.
When things end there can be two very simple ways, right or wrong. This post is about the bad side so I'll go to the wrong side once and for all. All that tangle of feelings, experiences, lives, among many other things that involve a relationship, collapse out the bad part, in many cases we seek to justify a break by seeing the bad side or thinking of blame, things that fill us even more of this hatred.
I think that falling into this is already extreme, unless there is something serious involved and even with that is not justified, I am of you who thinks "what good we do if we do things as badly as others". Reflect on this is my goal, whoever goes through a situation like this I invite you to think a little.
From hate to love?
They will think about it "Juan went crazy" but I know that I'm talking to them, that's why I started talking about the type of love. It is very rare to get a mutual hatred that ends in something good, but if capable a hatred of one of the parties that stand up to something. In this case if I speak from my experience, I think it was a bad judgment that had around a person and coupled with this is the fact that we were a little younger and capable had not matured many things that I understand now.
It all started at university, when during the first year I had some roses and indifferent attitudes with this person. The truth once she publicly made some partners feel bad (she did not know it was beginning the year) with something she said to voice populis in the room. At the time I did not pay attention, but then the girls approached me and made it clear to me how they felt and that filled me with anger.
The coexistence with this being was null, when we were close and she spoke not got into what I said, in addition to ignore each other. I do not think she got to hate me honestly, and the truth was something crazy and possessive with her friends, but that's another issue. On the other hand, his indifference to treating other people badly and not caring was something that inflamed me.
Life offers you a second chance!
Now this year I started the internships, something that made me very happy and nervous. In the first cycle they sent me with my best friend and with the person who previously named them, try to avoid contact and talk a lot with these people in the first stages of change. But with the passage of time I realized that the image that I had given a few years ago is already going, I still was not convinced and after spending time in that center they notify us where they send us in the second cycle, to my surprise They send me alone with this girl.
The second cycle was great by her side, the truth and without fear I can say that I end up loving her. So much so that I needed it in the third cycle, as I miss the blonde. This is when the types of love come in, I do not want her as a couple or crazy hahahaha but if I learned to appreciate her and love her as she was, around that a nice friendship came out. I'm not going to lie to you and say that I see her every day, that we talk to each other and others, but I met her boyfriend and she also invited me to her birthday, which for me was enough, a person who comes to detest I could become a good person to whom I hold a lot of appreciation and now I wish him the best.
And to close!
I know what happened to me, I could judge a person wrong and on top of that she did not help herself, besides living together is different from any classroom and shows both the good and bad side of people. I must leave something very clear, I do not hate or at least it is very rare to say that I hate someone because that implies many other things that are very strong and that finally the one that ends badly is one thinking or wishing that the other person does poorly.
I invite you to reflect, to give an opportunity to that person who does not like them or simply leave you with a bad impression. And on the other hand, if they finished a love cycle, do it in the best way or in the way they feel comfortable and calm, that what matters is our well-being in the end.