Ingredients of love:
Time:We must be separate long enough for those neutral feelings to turn into feelings of affection, or for those feelings of affection to grow in strength. Remember all the times you fell in love with somebody. Recall the period over which those feeling strengthened. They likely strengthened when you were away from them, rather than when you were with them.
Scarcity:
Uncertainty:
To create and enjoy love, you need to shift from the creation phase, when you are objective and calculated, to the subjective phase, when you can enjoy the company of your love interest from a subjective standpoint
