While finding the right man who is a perfect match is hard, it is even more challenging to keep the man interested. Once you have established that two of you are a match, you must learn how to keep him interested. Men want someone who is desirable to them but still admired by many. So don't adjust your life completely. Be mysterious, have your sweet moments with other people. Here's how to keep a man interested.
1. Appreciate Him and be Grateful for the Things he Does for You
Let your man know how grateful you are for how he handles things. Compliment him when he helps you out in the house. Don't wait for the significant events. The fact that you notice his small efforts will make him like you even more. Don't make him think that you take him for granted. Laughing at his jokes makes the man feel important.
2. Be a Partner
Don't limit yourself. Do not allow yourself to be a one night stand or just a booty call. Be reliable. When out having dinner, offer to settle the bill once in a while or at least split it. You can even ask him out to an event which you have to pay for the tickets. Such things will make you stand out. The man will have confidence in you and your ability to establish a stable relationship.
3. Be Confident and Remain Independent*
No man wants a lady who is not sure of herself. A bold woman who takes good care of herself is very attractive. Don't let your insecurities ruin your chance of having a good man by your side. Although the thought of spending more time with your man is tempting, don't give in. Have your hobbies and friends to hang out with. Make time for your man but not always. Cancel a date once in a while. People always want that which they cannot have, don't be readily available.
4. Be Spontaneous and Learn how to Seduce him
Surprise him with a very romantic date. Don't allow him to predict your moves. Be very creative when around him. You do not have to be alone in the room for you to make a move. As you hug him goodbye, hold on to it for a little longer. You can kiss him on the neck when he least expects it. Make him remember you and desire to meet you again by seducing him from time to time. While at it, do something that you are comfortable with. Don't try pole dancing if you have no skill set.
5. Dress Admirably and Always Wear Sweet-scented Perfumes
Men are visual beings, and that is not about to change. Although your character may make you stand out, a good outfit will make you stand out. Wear outfits that make men ogle when you pass but be decent and elegant. Let your man feel proud as he walks with you. Nothing will make a guy more interested in you than the fact that other guys wish they can have you.
It could be in their genes or maybe not but men are attracted to sweet scents. Keep your kitchen be fresh at all times and your bedroom smelling like a fresh rose flower. Wear sweet perfumes every time you go for dinner or every time you have a date.
6. Hold Intelligent Conversations
Don't be that girl who is very good at flirting but cannot hold an intelligent conversation. Your man may want to bring you to meet his associates, and he will be more comfortable if he knows that you are capable. When you are together, discuss important matters like career goals and growth. But remember that even if you are very familiar with a particular field, do not try to outsmart him. Let him be the man.
7. Don't Play hard to Get for too Long
Although acting unavailable is a good way of keeping the man coming after you, don't overdo it. Let him know you are interested. Don't make him work too hard to get your attention. Try to match his commitment level, don't let him feel like he is the only interested party.
8. Don't be Jealous of his Female Colleagues and Friends
Don't act out when you see him laugh with a female friend. Be mature and supportive of their friendship. If he happens to check other girls out, let him know that you too think that the girl is beautiful. This way, he will see that you are fully confident with yourself. Make friends with his women colleagues.
9. Win over his Family and Friends
Be sociable and easy when around your man's friend. Make his friends close to you, let them know that you are a catch. When you meet his family, do the same. Let them see you as an all rounded lady that will be a blessing to their son, brother or cousin.
10. Resolve Issues Calmly and Maturely
Disagreements are bound to happen. If you can't handle the problems maturely, you end up hurting the man you love. Instead of an argument, have a conversation with him. Don't allow issues to pile so much to the point of you exploding. Start your conversations with a positive opening statement. A gentle lady is undoubtedly a beautiful woman. Men hate it when ladies use loud voices.
11. Give him Space when he Needs it, Don't be Clingy
Let your man have his time to hang out with his friends or do his things. Avoid the temptation of tagging along unless he has invited you. Remember that by trying to have him all to yourself, you may be pushing him away. Let him go out with his friends and do the same.
Ladies, as you can see, keeping him interested is not that hard. Provided you remain yourself, be confident and compliment him once in a while. Be independent but still let him know that you need him in your life, be spontaneous. Don't wait for him always to initiate things. Lastly, remember to be that girl that other ladies envy and that girl that all the men would like to have. He will never let you go with such qualities.