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There are several men out there who do not know how to treat a lady right. The most annoying fact is that most men refuse to learn. I have had so many personal experiences with ladies and i'm proud to say i am probably one of the few men that not only knows how to treat a lady right but also try to be better at it.
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Naturally, men are not perfect and so the environment influences the way they treat people. Its unfortunate that some ladies fall victim of men that do not know how to treat their ladies right. I've seen instances where even ladies in question do not know the actual feeling of being treated right. Most of the time, ladies fall in love with the wrong set of men. For instance you meet two men, one has a job that pays averagely well, and the other is a very secretive person that does not disclose what he really does for a living (in most cases turns out to be a fraudster), ladies most times would fall for someone who is willing to give any material demand at the snap of a finger finger, rather than fall for someone who is willing to give every and anything up for "love".Why not be with someone who is gonna love and cherish you till eternity?
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In this day and age, it is evident that most ladies would choose wealth over love and sacrifice their happiness.
Sometimes back, I had a female friend that was in a very violent relationship. We were quite close, so she could tell me me almost any and everything. Her male lover (boyfriend) was always beating her occasionally; when she told me this I was shocked because I tough it happened only in Movies and also because she said she had been putting up with his act for about two or three years. I could not help but keep asking "what are you still doing with him?". She couldn't give me an answer because she did not have a genuine reason. Deep down i felt the probability of the sex being too good to let go of, but it still didn't make sense either ways, because no one would want an hour of pleasure for a life time of pain. Even tho she was actually very annoying and could literally frustrate anybody's life, she dint feel like no man had the right to lay a hand on her violently. She took it as a normal thing that happens in every relationship because she had little or no experience in relationships. It took me a while to re orientate her and it worked to a great extent, because she ended her relationship and began to see things differently.
First of all, ladies, you should note that no man has the right to lay a finger on you, even if he has paid your bride price, it is not just right.
You all believe that love is hard to find but the true fact is that most of the time you aren't even looking in the right direction. Love is difficult to find but you have to be patient, wise and selective about who you choose.
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For those who do not know how a lady should be treated. Here are some personal tips based on experience.
*Never lay a finger on your partner. Regardless of what she might have said or done. laying a hand on your partner in most cases complicates issues on ground and it is not healthy for a relationship.
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In most cases all you really have to do is stay quiet for a while, seat your partner down and talk some sense.
*Never force your partner into what she does not feel comfortable doing. I believe this is self explanatory. All you need to do is ask her if she could, if she cant, "respect her wishes at all times".
*Be kind, gentle, meek, call it anything you want. Ladies do not like men being too hard on them. Being softhearted does not make you a fool, it only portrays you as the best gift anyone could ever ask for.
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*Treat your lady like the queen she is. I've seen some men treating their lady like trash. That should be. If you trat your lady like the queen she is, she would treat you like the king you are.
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*Be ready to sacrifice anything for your lady; i'm talking about time, friends, comfort e.t.c Its the best you can do for the one you truly love.
*Make sure your lady comes first before your friends. The truth most of all don't realize is that, friends stick around when things are rosy or considerably manageable. The moment things go wrong, most friends are no where to be found, But there is that one person that sticks with you(your lady). If your lady isn't the kind of person that would stick with you during tough times, then she is just your friend playing the role of you lady.
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*The last tip is to be faithful in your relationship. This is the most crucial and very difficult part of a relationship. The best you can do is "try".
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Do note that relationships are not 100% rosy. There are ups and downs in every relationship wnd what matters most is how you handle every turbulence in your relationship. Treat your lady right.