So earlier today, I wrote an article on reading the female body language. Asides from that being an added advantage, girls find it easy expressing their feelings and communicate whatever feeling they have. Unlike the male gender who’d hardly tell exactly what they’re feeling. It’s hard sometimes to know if they like you back as much as you like them. So, making it easy for you and I, I picked up a few things that would help indicate if he does, or doesn’t like you. Although, on my side I’m not much of a go getter for guys, I’d rather play safe and hide my feelings.
HIS BODY LANGUAGE.
Interesting thing about this topic is, these actions are of pure and clear intent, not deceiving and can help you plan your moves. So how do you know he’s into you? Or he wants you?
He maintains eye contact. There was this guy I had a huge crush on, lasted for like 2 years. I’m very reticent, so he didn’t know, even though he was a neighbor. Soon we started talking, I felt he couldn’t like me because I was not in his league. But guess what? He would give me hot intense eye contact that would drive me wild, inside. I tried hard not to blush and make a fool of myself. But it was a sign never the less that he found me attractive enough to want to keep eye contact.
Guys have the tendency to want to show off their skill, especially when you’re around. It could be his culinary skill, football, rapping and stuff. They’d like to show off their manliness and body too. Show you how easy they can do things. Do you find him resting both hands on his waist while addressing you? Notice his chest help up high? He’s definitely wanting to be seen and noticed by you.
He tries anything to get your attention whether near or far. He would either do that by raising his voice, sound clowny or funny or even boisterous. If he’s with his friends, he’d detach himself so you’d notice him first. That’s one signal you shouldn’t ignore.
lol. Ever caught him staring at you often? Win for you. In fact, he would want you to know that he’s checking you out, show you that all his attention is on you. My crush used to do that all the time and I would think about it for days. That means he finds you physically attractive. He reaches out to touch you, maybe your hair, or knee and maybe while taking a walk, he puts his hands over your waist….he wants to know how you respond to his touch and girls, this is a positive sign.
Watch his character and manner towards you. He pays attention to how you look and will go as far as complimenting you.
--He would be protective, asking questions like “are you okay?” or “do you feel cold?” or “should I get you anything?” he’s super caring towards you.
--He begins to mirror you. You laugh, he laughs. You smile, he smiles. You roll your eyes, he does the same. Teasing but sweet and shows he likes you a lot.
--When he walks with you, he slows down his pace, so you both will be on the same level. If he’s not very shy and very romantic, he would hold your hands too.
--Everything is erect. Lol, I don’t mean his genitals, well maybe but his posture, shoulders, legs and body features will be firm, showing you how manly he can be, and also showing you he’s capable of protecting you.
--When he serves you an eye brow flash, he finds you interesting, attractive. His pupil dilates, showing he’s open, letting you see more of him. Notice that his toes are pointed towards you and that his legs are spread open. This is him telling you “welcome to my world”.
--If he’s with you, he doesn’t want distractions so he puts his phone away and engages you in any type of conversation.
--If he’s letting you see his teeth, you don’t need any other form of assurance that he likes you. Guys would smile, hiding their dentition as a normal response. But when he smiles at you, teeth open, nose flaring, with the wrinkles of his smile obvious on his forehead, then he really does like you.
--This should be the commonest of all. He lends you his sweater, or face-cap or any other thing he possesses or holds dear, he likes you for sure.
AND IF HE DOESN’T LIKE YOU
- He keeps OBVIOUS distance. He won’t come anywhere close to you at all.
- He avoids PHYSICAL AND EVEN EYE CONTACT. Eye contact may be brief or none at all.
- He won’t care at all, about your feelings or what you have in mind or your interests, nothing that concerns you.
- He wouldn’t take his time to impress you. Not even smiling at you, calling or texting you, dressing up for you, being a gentle man. Lol, He would yawn, stretch to relax beyond what is romantic and maybe scratch his butt. You do not have his feeling.
- He would cross his arms, legs and any other thing there is to cross. This shows he’s keeping you out of his world and isn’t receptive to you.
- His attention is somewhere else, and it’s obvious he isn’t paying you any attention whatsoever. If you both are together, you notice he keeps checking his time, or wouldn’t even bother to start a conversation, or notice he is checking his facebook and instagram page , forget it. You don’t have his attention there and you’d never get it.
So, for all ladies who’d venture into shooting their shot, with these few tips of mine, you’d know if he’s giving you green light or not. If he’s not, please don’t waste your time. I advise you let him do the chasing any way. Hope you enjoyed. Please leave your comments below.