I had a conversation with a friend today. We were talking about women and what do they prefer. My response was "Who cares" but he has a different strategy. Dress well, have confidence, buy a few good accessories, go to the gym and you pretty much have everything under control. This simple tactic can fool the average person into forming a good opinion about your person. If you have money as well, most of these things will come out naturally.
Thing is, with these basic moves, we bait certain people that adhere to those values. In other words, if one can pretend to be someone then they can attract certain individuals. This is why business attires work so well, uniforms and the like. Dressing in specific clothes reflects specific personalities even if that is not true. It is much the same as going hunting and carrying with you specific whistles that attract different birds.
Most people can even get married and have families before discovering who they have been with. It takes years for some people to break into the true shell of someone. Most of us choose to believe the facade rather that learning about the actual person. Pop culture and the internet has also created meme personalities. It becomes even harder to discover the true identities of those around us.
If we examine the reason why we choose to love someone the answer is pretty simple. We love those who adhere to our own ideals. Whether that is boobs, ass, brains, taste or anything else, is irrelevant. We fall in love with individuals that attract our deepest desires and likes. We end up with those that remind us our selves in some way. We can love many different people at once because we are quite flexible beings. Culturally is not accepted as much but it is the raw truth.
