I don't know if it is you or not, but in doubt me and many others will not upvote. good luck.

I can't control what other people think and say.

lol
you could easily verify it is you by posting a message to your instagram
https://www.instagram.com/jessalyn_0221/?hl=en
or here by posting a pic holding a steem sign.
then we'd know it is really you and you would get much bigger upvotes.