A man becomes calm in the measure that he
understands himself as a thought evolved being, for
such knowledge necessitates the understanding of
others as the result of thought, and as he develops a
right understanding, and sees more and more clearly
the internal relations of things by the action of cause
and effect he ceases to fuss and fume and worry and
grieve, and remains poised, steadfast, serene.
One of our biggest flaws is being blind to our short comings but we're first to jump to others throat when others make a mistake learn to be more critical instead of pointing fingers.
Whatever you do don't fall into this trap of painting someone else in other to paint a perfect picture of yourself. This will come back to haunt you sooner or later and it won't be a beautiful experience.
Take heed!