The Art Of Love (Part Two)

Lets just pick up immediately from where we stopped in Part one
If you missed Part One check it here for you to be able to follow up with us
https://steemit.com/love/@manchochris/the-art-of-love-part-1

To give you a recap of what we talked about in the precious chapter, we mostly focused about Love (Erotic). We discussed the difference between Lust and love and why people mistake the two.

I also showed you how to get a long with your new beautiful princess, what ever you call her and we said time is the most import aspect for you to have a successful relationship.

Let's go straight to the Do's and Dot's for a successful Love Relationship
After getting this long awaited cute woman we all want to be happy with them and spend memorable days together and perhaps get married, am I right? But most of us fail on this because of just a few mistakes we make. These mistakes seem to be really small but they cost us really a lot.

However, it is not late for you to change this first we shall point out the Dot's such that if you haven't messed up yet your able to save your love life and then I will show you how to recover and get back on track in case you hard messed up already.

DOT'S
Love is really fun and amazing if you do the right thing. I have simple Tips for you here that will help you to enjoy your love life the fill maximum. Make it a point to follow these Tips critically and trust me you will always be proud to have visited my Blog.

• Do not pretend to be some one your not
  The biggest mistake most people do is to pretend to be what they are not, they assume a higher status they haven't attained yet thinking this will keep their women, this is so wrong actually that is not women look at in most cases, they want a man who can afford to be confident about who they are!!!

I have this one friend who used to battle with relationships day in day out, in a year he could have over 8 of them failing and he had only one mistake, blagging and showing up.

It is good to show off but it becomes terrible when you show off with some thing you do not have at all. He was always borrowing cars from friends in the name of showing up yet he did not even own a single flat screen, trust me he could always ask friends with cool homes to allow him bring in his women and he could do is brag with staff he did not own.

Whenever they realized that the cars were not his!! not even the cribs, of course with much disappointment one had to quit. just imagine being fooled by a man whom all your hopes lied..... That failed him always until I engaged him in a deep discussion concerning his relationship behaviors and thank God he listened to me and he is now happily engaged with one beautiful woman. Try being your self too and you be good to go.

• Do not be so Protective
  We often think following up on where your woman has gone, who they are hanging out with is be caring but instead this is not the same feeling women get. This actually annoys them when they find out that your being so protective. It shows your insecure and have little or no trust in them.

There better ways to care about your woman but being protective has proven not be part of the list and trust me if you over do it your at the verge of loosing her. I want you to know that if a woman chooses to love they love for real and if your feel with them believe me you will enjoy all your love life.

I am not saying do not mind about them, or where they are but you have to be smart while doing this in a way that is more fun to her.

Instead of asking her where she was ask her how everything went where she was. do you notice the difference? this how you should deal with women do not be so direct. If you do this the right way like I have told you, your likely to know a lot more than you expected to know from her and she will tell you with ease.

Women love it when their men try to find out about them but the way you ask them really matters a lot, this what will give you credit. check your self on how you ask anything from your woman and if your not inline with my advise try to act accordingly.

• Do not give her control over You
  It sounds a little rude but the moment you let a woman control the relationship then you have lost your self by default. one thing you must now women love men who can control them, men who can command them. They actually love it so much that 60% of women get turned on when their men command them to do something. it makes them feel so sweet and this grows their love for you so strong.

If you let a woman control you, they tend to look at you as a boy and of course they will look for a person who can prove to be a man to them. Most men let women control them because they want to look sweet and caring to their women but trust me that is the worst thing you can ever do in a relationship and I discourage it so much.

That's why you see women leaving for another reason for no reason when you feel you have done everything. My dear do not risk your heart because as a long as you let a woman control you then your future with her totally uncertain.

• Do not be in a comfort zone
  It is always good to take a simple breath after getting her but my simple advise to you to keep the zeal like you had as you were chasing her. Do not to relax, do not be in a comfort zone thinking you have gotten her and that's all, my dear things do not work like that and many of us make this big mistake.

As your in your chair home watching a cool movie remember she has a lot of guys pushing hard to get her, they are willing to put in anything to see that they win her over. They are doing for her all the things she expects you to be doing for her.

Because she loves you she will ignore these guys and give you time but the moment you keep on relaxing she will end up being stolen by one of these sharp guys who are doing everything for. It is these guys proposing dates with her all the time as for you, your in a comfort zone because you know you got her....my dear wake up otherwise she is gone.

• Do not be too Jealousy
  Women in most cases love it when their men feel jealousy about them as it is human nature to feel jealousy for our loved ones however, if your too jealousy and over complaining about her friends high chances are your nagging her and scaring her a way. Try to control that by simply trusting your woman and thinking positive.

Many of us once we see our women charting with other guys and spending some time with them, we become so furious and the results from this attitude is brought about the negativity in our minds, we think about things that they do not intend to do at all. This kind of reaction breaks their hearts so much and they will start feeling like you do not trust them.

If this continues like that, then her love will die slowly and before you know it she will not want to see you at all and such a situation is very hard to recover from. so guys I ask you to take note of this seriously.

We have many Dot's but I find these to be the most dangerous ones and if your able to do away with them the others will be erased automatically.

Other Dot's You May Know

• Do not ever slap her
• Do not speak about your Ex unless she asks
• Do not over ignore her
• Do not be so busy for her
• Do not get very close to her lady friends
• Do not forget about your friends because of her

We can not finish them all but like I have said if we focus on the most dangerous then all will be well. Otherwise that is all for today and next we shall be tackling the Do's in depth. Thank you for reading and following my love posts. see you.

Authored by Mancho Chris
#The Love Dr.