Do not force love
Just because you love someone, it means that he must love you. People are not obliged to return your affection. Love is not a service or something borrowed. So do not pursue the object of desire, do not expect you remove stars, you make gifts and brings hands. Even if they agreed to start a relationship with you, it is doomed to failure from the outset. More likely to be used, your feelings to deepen and his to you and not to occur.
Love yourself first
Loving yourself does not mean you're selfish, selfish princesses. It means you respect yourself and feel great in your skin. Show others that you are firmly on the ground, you know what you deserve and you are not willing to humiliate about this and that. That is the way to find someone who will really fall in love with you because of that, because you yourself love.
Do not chase wild
Do not be blind to love and for those who really care about you. Many people make the mistake to keep in touch with someone who clearly does not deserve, always no time, kept cool, it makes you feel bad in every way and so on. At the same time ignore the one who loves to spend time with you doing your mile surprises considerate with you and simply experiencing genuine love for you.
Not turn back
Do not try to hold myself to a man who no longer have feelings for you, no matter how long you past this guy, the fact that you have three children, total mortgage, and whatnot. As much as we want, love rarely is reborn like a phoenix.