- Constantly trying to make your partner happy.
And remember that everyone is responsible for their own happiness. You can not make someone happy who wants to be happy. Not in this connection. You can not make him feel part of a whole, to which he deep down does not belong. You can not provoke him in love, if not ready to give it.
- Your partner expects you to give up the things they do ... you.
The things you love, the things they loaded things that are part of you ... they make you. At the moment you give them because of your partner, you give up on yourself. From its core. From its authenticity. And doing it in the name of what? To preserve the relationship? To keep harmony? No real connection or true harmony when one of the two deleted itself. And ask yourself ... are you doing it the same for you? The answer is no, right? Then why are you doing it?
- When spores, your partner is trying their best to have their opinion.
And your ego. In the dispute born truth, it is. But only when this truth is sought. When you're ready to see it. When you want to find it. If your partner does not seek to find the "golden mean", not to hear their views and to find the tangent between them, and to impose it's over yours, your ego over your dispute becomes meaningless. The conversation becomes meaningless. And ... your relationship become meaningless. Because meaningful relationship is based on the ability above all to hear. And see. To retreat. To understand. To forgive. To love...
- Never a top priority of his partner.
There is always something or someone more important than you. You should always reckoned to wait to put up - minor note of minor concern. Because otherwise it means not getting any. Only ... that you really deserve? Do your second? To be in a wait? So there you shall do with him? So you believe that we should do to you? ...
- Your partner scare.
It's not to scare you with physical violence (because if this is the case, stop reading this article and you pack your bags and get out there!). But if they afraid of my reactions, that you do not know when and what will provoke his anger, if you fear that without knowing how and why could it make to leave you and to break the link in -well wondered whether you want this connection. Whether you need it. And if it really is a link. One that we dream. Whatever you deserve. And as you can have. As long as you want. Enough to get rid ...