The notion that; ‘women need a man to take care of them’ is not applicable to all women, and this set of women are called independent women.
Independence is a state of desiring or having the ability to do things and making decisions for yourself devoid of helps and opinions from other people. It is an admirable personality every woman can have. Independence is wrapped around vulnerability and strength; which is not at all easy to portray without the world seeing it in a negative light.
An independent lady whether spurred on by circumstances or she desired to, has substantially grown up to taking care of herself. She is a lady of substance and has no need for a man’s credit card, luxurious gifts and others abound. This lady doesn’t lean on anyone for her financial well-being. However, her being obstinate to receiving help offered to her is often misconstrued as deaf to reason.
The high standard goals she has set and achieved for herself makes her a powerful and influential lady, but she doesn’t use her ego for evil but for good; empowering and taking care of others just as she takes care of herself. Being human and imperfect; she doesn't always have it all together, but nothing, no one, gets in the way of an independent lady; she wiggles her way out of any sticky situation with less stress. She doesn’t lookup or lean on anyone else for her emotional, mental, or physical well-being. This lady sees positivity in everything she does still, she has an amazing platform of success.
She’s classy, intellectually inclined, smart, too busy for small talks and fluent in candid conversations.
Notwithstanding that self-love takes immense effort, time in order to cultivate and nurture, still; she has great love for herself. Only an alpha-lady, a strong woman, knows how to really love herself despite her perceived flaws.
An independent lady has an incredible sense of self worth; because, she is so in touch with who she is and who she wants to be. Mind you, she is unapologetic about her lifestyle. She inadvertently gags when she observes and hears other women prioritize and talk about getting a Mrs degree as their main aim in life.
So, what else can a man offer this lady; IF NOT SEX?