I'll start with a question: Do you think you can learn seduction in just two months?
So I will address the rest of the article to those who answered that I can.
My first steps
Four years ago, I first released Mystery's show, The Pickup Artist. In the show, a group of young girls with faces learned progressively how to handle seduction.
Motivated and excited about the movies I dream of being good with the girls. I wanted to wipe out the words of my first college girlfriend: "we have nothing to talk to ... tell me something ... talk to me!", Words that hurt me but they gave me the strength to take life in my hands and doing what I had to do.
I have always treated my problem solving as a hobby. So I began to learn seduction as if it were the hottest hobby on the planet (and so it was).
Now I want to teach you how to make an action plan, to be motivated to apply it and to have concrete results by applying it.
What you will see below is exactly the techniques we applied when we started seduction. Techniques that created my surroundings to be successful.
THE MOST IMPORTANT 3 TECHNIQUES TO RETURN THE RIGHT TO SEDUCTION
1. Best motivation technique: "Success brings success"
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For more information, give a google search for "success brings success".
The problem faced by all the people who start learning seduction is that they expect to have results from the first. He expects to phone numbers, looks for meetings and clearly dreams of much sex.
What do you think happens when they not only do not get numbers, but they do not even get to a conversation with the girl?
It demoralizes. And come with the classic replica: "For me it does not work!".
PROBLEM: START - STEP 1 - STEP 2 - STEP 3-- ... - EXPECTED RESULT
SOLUTION: START - EXPECTED RESULT
Imagine what would happen if you were successful every day. If every day you learn something new in seduction, you would apply and work. Do you think that would motivate you to continue learning, to continue to be successful? Do you think that after a month of success you abandon the scholar, do you think you'll let go of seduction?
Technique to get results every day: Set your goal so close to the start that you can make the smallest step to accomplish it.
If you still think that it does not work for you to close the site and play on your computer, it still does not hurt you hard enough.
2. The Best Technique to Progress in Seduction: The Principle of Pareto
In short, the principle states that in many events 20% of input produces 80% of output, and the remaining 80% of inputs will produce only 20% of output.
Long: Give a google search for "the pareto principle".
I still remember my first steps in seduction. Motivated by the Mystery movies and hoping for fantastic results, we're looking for an opening. In 10 minutes I make a list of 15 ways to talk to girls. More than half an hour ago I was still on the list, not knowing what * is the best *.
PROBLEM: What opener to use? What do I have to say after? What the …
SOLUTION: Choose one, test it, and if it does, use it.
Never expect to choose the perfect opener, understand the perfect technique or apply it perfectly. Learn to apply it to give you overall results.
Do not block at the beginning of the game looking for * magic * openers, there is no such thing. Choose one you like and that suits you and begins to apply it.
The goal is not to dedicate 2 years of your life to learn to talk to any face on the planet, the aim is to learn in a week how to talk to girls in general, leave perfectionism on the other side, you do not have need him.
3. Best Action Plan
The best plan is the one you follow.
Any progress in seduction consists of two essential parts: the theory (knowing how to do something) and practice (doing that).
If you only learn theoretically, you'll think you understand what's going on, but you'll be completely inappropriate to tackle a girl, with all the theory you have on your head. The tips you think you can give are superficial and often will not help the world, you do not have the experience to get caught up in subtleties.
If you do just practice you will progress very slowly, you will hit 10 times the same situation before you catch up to solve it.
A good book about seduction will give you the experience of the author (and perhaps many people), accumulated over the years, the experience you do not have. You will not repeat (all) the problems they have experienced and you will have faster results.
But a book reading without applying every technique in it will not give you anything. You will not learn anything even if you read it and apply it at random. You will have the impression that you know, but the results will be expected.
To progress in everything you need to learn and apply what you have learned. Only after you apply will understand what you read.