Love or Coercion of Will
Love is full of mystery, whether we love right or just an effort of self-gratification and often without realizing there is forced coercion that we consider better.
Loving does not have to make a loved one what we want. You know, if we have the freedom to determine our own happiness, so do others. Although you believe that you have understood what others want, in fact it is just a claim before you ask it.
I think before you decide to love in ways you like, you should try asking questions to the ones you like, "What do you want, what makes you happy, and what can I give you to be happy?"
Your movement in love will be clearer. Your efforts are a happy process for someone you love, not tying it to your own interests. Together make a happy plan together. Build a commitment, so that one day no one is hurt.
