The chronicles of men
And the time came!
They denied them of love and made them feel less of themselves for lack of wealth.....at first in the beginning, they used to be and were always ready, energetic and enthusiastic to the idea of marriage.....men were loved in those days, they were always made to believe in their dreams and everyone supported them to get there.....men were given all they never had and their women made them all they were reluctant themselves to be: first a king and a Lord...that is successful.
All you needed then was a life and a journey (purpose). Things were easier, life was better, and the world was happier.
Reason you will agree with me, is to subtract the ages of all first born from that of their fathers n mothers......see the figure u have left.....over 80% of those figures will be younger than I am.
But the time came that having a life or purpose was no more enough, the course n direction to destinies don't interest again. Your destiny destination is only important now except if you teleport our women there first to see what the future holds and then bring them back to the present time again.
None of them will confess they want material things but the absence of it just dethroned the man from his kingdom with them.
Gather a thousand of them and their anthem will be "true love over other things"....its a big lie o
the time already is one where you are just born only when you have broken through....
So the men came to the women, at innocence....
and they were told to go and be reborn or remade....of steel n gold
they pressed here and there....yet everywhere, they were shown that the rules have changed from the days of their fathers.....it's either you are made already or you hide your face
So they left to get all they were told was needed.....And the more they keep gathering all these, the more they keep getting lost in that cause.
Listen Ladies!
When you deny a man love because of what he doesn't have
when you throw all he brought: (love) away for the things yet far from his grip
When you delay him for the sake of things you are supposed to be getting on the way.......for each one and all of those men you ladies keep doing that to
Be warned and wary of that journey you want to send him.....coz, when he goes for those things, be ready to wait madly longer.
You may think he should just get enough money for u first before u start,
beware!!! he may get stuck gathering what he thinks will be enough for a generation
Women, even when u are not ready yet.....either because things ain't yet rosy, or maybe u even need time for study.....don't throw it all at them like u have all the time in the world....
u really don't wanna end up being the one that will be delayed, trust me men has more time to them than women.
Or let's say u are the careful or reserved type....please what u won't eat don't smell it. FACT!
but if it's a man that u want or a journey u already see a light to......even if u think things are going fast or too fast for you.....don't throw it all hard at them demanding for slow motion......once he switches the motors n relays down....his slow motion will be bad.
Conclusively
Generally, Men naturally has the inborn gene in them that want things to be good and on point, he wants to be successful, he wants things to go fine and smooth first, he wants to ride a nice car n live in a good mansion....in fact, he doesn't like being overtaken on the road while he's driving.....naturally they are wired to pursue the wildest of dreams that takes time and also wired to push and settle things to the best of perfection possible........this in itself demands and takes time......hence the reason for their delays!
Also, the society ain't helping again.....its less half as fair unto men these days as its Gradually seeking to push them to corners of less relevant . If u look at most advertised jobs these, the best of them carries the female gender than it does the male......So, from home to carrier and the society.....the feminine is winning more sympathy for favor and goodness than the men......this also slows things down
The worst you can now do as a woman is to deliberately n consciously be another factor, input to longing and causing or demanding for delay(either consciously or subconsciously).
He also wants things in place and on time....the best u can do is help him do that. And not the other way round
Adepoju Adeniyi
Coach.