Dear steemians...
You must to know that there really is nothing special in choosing a mate, just like we choose a house, a car, as well as we choose healthy foods. The differences is the mate's impact is long term, because one of the biggest mistakes in life is misconstruing people.
In this case I want to emphasize that lifestyle in big cities will narrow down one's self to be a peaceful person and fall in love for peace.
But if a person finds it hard to love someone, then the thing he has to do is to improve himself in his life
to be more easily visited by love.