THE PSYCHOLOGY OF LOVE
There are three opinions to life your opinion my opinion and the truth
Let us talk about psychology
What is psychology?
The Dictionary meaning of psychology
Psychology, the scientific study of behaviour and the mind. This definition contains three elements. The first is that psychology is a scientific enterprise that obtains knowledge through systematic and objective methods of observation and experimentation. Second is that psychologists study behaviour, which refers to any action or reaction that can be measured or observedsuch as the blink of an eye, an increase in heart rate, or the unruly violence that often erupts in a mob. Third is that psychologists study the mind, which refers to both conscious and unconscious mental states. These states cannot actually be seen, only inferred from observable behaviour.
What is love?
The dictionary meaning of love is an intense feeling of tender affection and compassion
What I mean by the term THE PSYCHOLOGY OF LOVE is that we want to see LOVE in a more advance way. here I am going to talk about my own opinion of love and psychology.
Psychology is an advance form of human wisdom.
LOVE
To some people love is a mystery, to some it is a game, to some it is a dream while to some others it is SEX. Love is non of these, we tend to misunderstand it because of what we were told while growing up. Now for you to get it clear you have to unlearn what you already know about love and take in what I am about to give to you trust me it helps. Love is patience, love is hope, love is trust, love is understanding, love is flowers for no reason, love is giving and not expecting to collect back, love is the strongest force on earth that binds two tight together but, in one word love is DESTINY. People have confused love for obsession, infatuation and extreme likeness but in the psychology of love we have gone ahead to bring you the truth, really love is DESTINY. There is no such thing as I love you now I dont love you any more that simply means the love was never there love comes to stay, love doesnt make you weak love gives you strength, love is not in your partner it is in you, it is the strongest force on earth. like in the bible for GOD so love the world that he gave his only begotten son to fulfill scriptures and that was his DESTINY if you say to your partner I love you what you mean is that we are made to be together in other words love brings fulfillment and fulfillment is destiny.
OBSESSION>
An idea or feeling that completely occupies the mind.
INFATUATION>
An intense but short-lived and irrational passion for somebody or something.
THE POWER OF LOVE.
love has been said to be the greatest healer of deep wounds, the greatest comforter, the inner energy that we poses, the inner piece of the heart and some have even said that love is the strongest force on earth. take a ride with me for a moment let us see love as it aught to be, love makes the world go round love makes you feel on top of the world when there is love all your pains are gone love makes you strong. love might be a part of your emotion but according to psychology your emotions dictates 80% of what happens on the other part of the body research also has it that a person who experiences love in his life that there is a tendency that he/she would be efficient and very productive we all can not do with out love let us get a little biblical now it is GOD'S love for us that is why we are still alive today what more can i say there a true power in love
WHAT IS THE ORIGIN IF THE COLOUR AND THE SHAPE OF LOVE
In the psychology of love we are going to go deep into research to make sure we give you more than just facts which is the truth as what is going to go down into the history books as one of the greatest research ever on love.
what is the shape of love "the human heart", what is the colour of the human heart "RED" so what is the colour of love "RED"
Exercise
Close your eyes for a moment now i want you to open up the eye of your mind that is your subconscious look deep into your heart and tell me what colour that you see in your heart RED i suppose, you are going to look further and then you will size your heart and tell me what shape you can find here what you find out as the shape of the heart is the true shape of love.
LOVE QUOTES
Here i am going to be giving you some of the most favorite quotes in the history of love.
What is love? those who don't like it call it responsibility, those who play with it call it a game, those who don't have it call it a dream, those who understand it call it destiny but me, I call it you.
Dance like no one is watching, sing like no one is listening, love like you will never get hurt, the world is a better place with you by my side.
Some friends are like illness you would wish you never had them, some are like drugs you will use them once in while but yours is oxygen i need you to survive.
There is night so we can appreciate day, there is sorrow so we can appreciate joy, there is evil so we can appreciate good and there is you so i can appreciate love.
Often times my eyes is always jelous of my heart because those that i love with passion are often far from my eyes but resides in my heart, love is not about finding whom you can live with but its about finding whom you can't live with out.
Peace like the coolness of an early stream, joy as much as you can hold, prosperity like an ever flowing river these are my wishes for you my love.
You are like the morning sun that lightens my day you are like the evening blues that calms my brain how can live with out you my love.
You could fall from a mountain you fall from a hill you could fall from a valley but the best way to fall is to fall in love with me.
Eyes like the cat's hips like the mountains, beauty like the goddess lips filled with tenderness and your voice as the morning due what more can i want the epitome of african beauty.
I dont want to close my eyes i don't want to fall asleep because i will miss you my love, even when i dream of you the sweetest dream will never do because i will still miss you.
I am sending bells for your heart to jingle, i am sending you stars for your eyes to twinkle, joy that never dwindles and a smile that never wrinkles.
The proved fact remains that no matter the stormy weather i will love you for ever as long as you keep me under your umbrella.
Your love glints like a bunch of dazzling crystals clustered around my beating heart and each time i close my eyes i feel you inside and when i fold my arms i hold you close no matter the distance i will always be there.
I have never met some one that makes me smile i have never met some one that make me happy but you my love, you are the only one that brings joy to my heart.
I want to call the stars down from the sky, i want to live a day that never dies, i want to change the world only for you, all the impossible my love i will do for you.
I want to hold you close under the rain i want to kiss your smile and feel your pain I know what is beautiful looking at you, in the world full of lies you are the truth you make me feel like a candle in the dark when you tell me that you love me.
Suddenly life has new meaning to me there beauty up above and the things we never take notice lives around us you wake up suddenly you are in love.
I want to make you say just what I want show you the loneliness and what it does you walked into my life to stop my tears every thing is easy now I have you here.
In a world with out you I will always hunger but all I need is your love to make me stronger.
SEX AND ITS EFFECTS ON LOVE
Sexual intercourse is a physical sexual activity between human beings that involves the genitals. This act specifically is meant for married couples and not single guys and girls but the act is currently been practiced by unmarried people especially the youths every where around the world. Sex is the biggest cause of break ups and heart breaks in relationships today, as sex binds two tighter together and they break up faster. Some people think that sex brings love for singles it doesnt I will tell you why sex makes you loose control of yourself and you cannot tell if you love some one when you are not in control of yourself. There are three effects that comes after sex they are .
- Psychological effects
- Physical effects
- Spiritual effects
PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFECTS
As the name implies psychology, it has to do with human behavior now the psychological effects of sex shows more
On what happens to unmarried youths psychologically after sex. You loose control of yourself for the time been, you dont think straight, the act re occurs in your memory and that is not good for students, there is always this guilt that you feel after every act, you are prone to making nasty decisions, strong urge is created and it makes want to go back even when you dont like the person
PHYSICAL EFFECTS
Often times it is said that virginity is lack of opportunity, that is a big lie, humans naturally appreciate the most, things that are scarce and virgins are not common that makes them unique and special having premarital sex can go along way to affecting you in your search for a spouse as excessive sex before marriage can turn you into a sex addict this alone can lead you into fornication and unfaithfulness in marriage and also a case of haven had sex before marriage and after getting married the person you engaged yourself in the act with happens to be your husbands best friend that also can lead to fornication.
SPIRITUAL EFFECT
When it comes to the spiritual it is a different ball game GOD calls your body his holly temple and that you must not defile it, the spiritual effects of sex occoures when two people are involved in sex there is this transfer of spirits between both parties as you can not tell the kind of spirit whom you are sleeping with has, like in a case where a girl that sleeps with both girls and guys(bisexual) sleeps with a guy that is strait only sleeps with women and then he goes ahead and then sleeps with a girl who sleeps with only guys here is what happens the spirit from the bisexual lady transfers to the guy and then moves to the girls and she started seeing herself in a dreaming with a girl in just a little period of time she started sleeping with girls. Now you see how it got to the lady you never know what can get to you.
