LET'S TALK ABOUT YOUR FIRST SIGHT A LITTLE BIT
Most times you fall in love with some one, it's not just a quick blink event ,it must have started some where, that place in time at which he ask you out for a date is where the journey of your love began , you and only you decide what happen next. " Yah yah !!! I think he's cool " you said. The next day he called you and take you out, You had all the fun you could , you had your first kiss with him. Wow!!! " What a lovely day, my dream man " you said
And forgot to ask this one question at that spot he ask you out , am I ready for another heart breaker? Yah yah He might not be heart breaker actually but you need to be sure of what/where you are doing/going to.
Have your expectations, make your predictions and go in for your goals.
WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN MIND WHEN YOU FIND NEW LOVER OF YOUR LIFE
What ever you made up in your mind always have altanative. 70% of people fall in love after their first sex. Wow!!! . He is good in bed ,I have this feeling about him , You said And forgot to ask this one question , "am I the only one in his life?" Actually most relationships don't have goals , most are convinced by what they saw/heared (it might be car, nice asset, good looking, handsome, money , good in sex etc) and once those things aren't there any more, issue begans to arise, and you forgot to ask this one question at the same spot you had your first kiss with him, "for how long will he be nice to me? " . No doubt issues will always araise, but with the strength of understanding of the partners it wouldn't exceed it limit.
Set your plans with him, know what he can do for you, know his plans to was you. If you are having marriage in your plan, have some alternative plan for it, if it didn't work out your alternative might (example if I didn't settle down with him, I will surely come an independent woman). But I suggest that you shouldn't include marriage in your plans.You might discuss about the future but stick to your plans. Making long time goal can make your dream come through. Most don't know what to offer to their partner to help out their dreams. What runs through your mind when issues comes up?
HOW DO YOU HANDLE YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES
No doubt every man deserve a peace of mind. Yah. You might be killing your relationship literally you won't know thinking that you are doing the right thing. Most people engage in fighting, abusing, destroying their love with there own mouth. You won't leave him, after what you pass through, you said.
Believe it, if you insist not to get over with it, then you will have to live like that.You are killing it the moment issues are not been resolved within both parties. That understanding of both parties isn't there. The biggest problem might comes from your friends that advise you wrongly.
your relationship should remain private.
Not all your friends likes and celebrate your relationship and success, some might want any opportunity to take over your happiness. Some don't like any thing you do at all but might pretend to care for you at all cost.
Stop killing your relationship by exposing all details to your friends because they don't understand your feelings.always meet your partner and settle your difference.
If you need adviser, meet your mom or your dad, or consult a relationship counsellor
YOUR GUY DON'T SATISFY YOU?
This is one of the common problem both partners can exhibit.
don't have sex too much to an extend one man can't satisfy you and don't fuck around till you get weak
Don't say I can manage him for now, because there is a certain point you will become confuse and lost about your feeling and decision. Relationship does not need tolerance, yes love can be so stupid but what about your future.
You don't need to plead for some once love. Let them leave if they want to, but always make sure you treat them right /estreemly good when they are around you so that they can't imagine seeing some one better than you.
MOST IMPORTANT THING YOU SHOULD KEEP PRIVATE
- your love life.
- your next plan
- your income (if you trust your partner open up).
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