Will Sex Improve Our Relationship
Visualize this scenario,
Heather has been seeing Mike for only two months, but she feels as if she's known him forever. They text each other constantly, they talk for hours at a time on the phone, and they can even finish each other's sentences! Fascinating. But now, as they sit in a parked car under the moonlight, he wants more than conversation.
Since they've been together, they've done nothing more than hold hands and briefly kiss. She doesn't want to go further. But she doesn't want to lose him either. No one makes her feel so beautiful, so special.
My brother's and sister's you all can already see where this scenario is heading, Right!!
But there is one thing you all fail to realize, and that is how dramatically sex would change things for this couple and its not for the better.
Let's be practical, If you defy the law of gravity, you will suffer the consequences. The same is true if you defy a moral law such as this ;
"Abstain from fornication" (1 Thessalonians 4:3)
I know most of us will still say, "Nothing will happen to me", after all isn't everyone having sex? You may even feel that sex will make you and your partner closer.
Think about this, research had clearly shown what goes through the minds of couples engaging in this act.
- Distress: Most youths who had engaged in premarital sex, say that they regretted it after all.
- Distrust: After having sex, each partner begins to wonder, "Who else has he/she had sex with.
Disloyalty: After having sex, a boy is more likely to dumpling his girlfriend and move on to someone else.
Disillusionment: Deep down, a girl would have preferred someone who would protect her, not use her.
True to this, many boys have actually said they would never marry a girl they've had sex with. Why? Because they prefer someone who is more chaste.
The fact is, if you give in to premarital sex, you are degrading yourself by giving away something of precious value. No wonder so many feel empty and worthless afterwards, as if they've carelessly allowed a precious part of themselves to be stolen.
Don't let that happen to you
Thank you all for your time.
Keep a date with me same time next week as we discuss on topics incidental to youths.