You must learn the art of loving yourself first before anyone else.
Loving yourself first before other won't drag you down when you'll become a lost melody. If you learn how to make yourself a priority, you'll find out how awesome and nice to be existed in this world. If you learn how to captivate yourself from joyful things and happenings, you will be loved. If you try to respect and save yourself from bullshts and anxiety, everyone will run into you and admire to keep you in their lives. If you know how to be unselfish with yourself, you'll be better as what you've thought.
Putting yourself before others won't make you disgusting. It's not self-centeredness at all. It is somehow bravery. You're saving yourself from the war of symphony and harmony. You're teaching yourself that no one will keep, care and seize you as a human instead yourself. You're keeping yourself away from unjoyful catastrophy and unbeatable pain.
Learn how to accept yourself first before anyone else. It may sound selfish but you have to own first your world before giving it to anyone unselfishly. You must learn first the sense of self-appreciation before you exist in someone's galaxy.
Remember, no one will follow you into dark instead yourself. No one will love you perfectly but you have yourself. No one will own you and yet you have yourself. You have yourself when it feels like loneliness drowns you. Remember that.
💌 Fraul Natividad