Greetings steemians, trust you all had a lovely day. I will be sharing some lines of advice to young girls out there who are more concerned about spending their man's money rather help him invest.
A lot of girls complain that guy walk away from them simply because they refused to give them sex. Some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.
Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real reason why the guys go away, yes! No doubt there are several guys who want sex, and if they don't get it they walk away but still the problem may not be the virginity or sex.
The story of the ten virgins in the bible reveals that both the wise and the foolish were all virgins. The others were not allowed seeing the bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity but because they were foolish and called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL and the EXTRA OIL here is CHARACTER.
Most women do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship while they brag about their virginity, that's all they have to offer.
Aside from your virginity or giving your spouse sex, what more can you offer?
Can you support him spiritually?
Can you support him physically?
What about Mentally?
All you do is demand money for bags, shoes, clothes, make-up to show off(SLAY BITCHES) and outing, making him spend unnecessarily. Have you ever sat him down and help him plan his future? Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in? How many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you? Rather than jumping from one club to another.
And for the virgins in the bible, they forgot that virginity Ends after marriage but extra oil continues. Yes nobody is perfect, we all have our bad sides.....
BUT....
Try to be a woman that a man will regret losing for the rest of his life. Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man. Build your man to your taste and stop looking for an ALREADY MADE HUSBAND.
Force yourself on that rich dude that you didn't work with him to achieve all he's got and watch him tell you the story of your life someday..
Did you work with me to achieve all I've got?
Ever since you got into my life/house, what has added to what you met?
NOTE:
There's nothing as best as building up your man yourself and you'll forever earn his respect.
I hope this piece of advice is Useful to all both Married and Singles? A word is enough for the wise....
Please feel free to drop your comment and also add to this write up and ofcourse i'd appreciate your upvotes too.
Thanks and goodnight Steemians....