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a way to see if someone really loves you and not just falls in love for a moment, just likes, just wants your money, or even just crazy about you for a moment. If you want to know how to find out if someone really loves you, follow these steps.
1. Pay attention to behavior
- See if he can be yourself when you are near you. One part of loving is being open to loved ones. If he feels comfortable showing his true identity in front of you, then chances are he loves you because he wants to open up to you.
- If he feels comfortable telling him what he thinks and feels for you, that also means he loves you.
If he feels comfortable showing his imperfect self in front of you, that means he doesn't hesitate to show his identity in front of you.
2. See if he's happy to be near you, even when it's hard. If the person you love goes through a bad day but becomes more cheerful when you see you, then that is a sign of love. If he loves you, then your presence and / or voice will make him feel better, even if it's just a little.
If later he is upset or through a hard day, see his reaction when you are present.
3 See if he is staring at you wide-eyed. This does sound strange, but look at the eyes of the person you love if you see it later. Does he look at you in a plain, glazed, silly and adorable way that can only be described as "wide-eyed"? You will know if you see that look. You won't get that look all the time, you can find it in the morning, or occasionally from across the dining table.
You might see it staring at you with the same expression.
4. See if he is too excited about you. Love makes people feel excited, without burden, and happy for no apparent reason. If you see him acting like this every time you are nearby, then that means he is in love with you. Is he really excited and often smiles for no apparent reason? If so, then he loves you.
- If you say something that is not so funny but he laughs loudly, then he may be in love.
- If he feels nervous when he is near you, maybe he is happy to meet you.
5. See if he gets angry when you get angry. If you feel upset or angry for one reason or another, then your loved one might be upset too. If he is very in love with you, then he will absorb the negative emotions that you emit because he wants you to feel better as soon as possible.
Even though he doesn't have to be as angry as you are, he can obviously be affected by your mood at that time because he just wants you to be happy.