The next worst thing that can happen to a man after hell is a bad marriage.
This singular decision determines how far you can go.
Marriage is a very serious thing, it has to be taken seriously. Like my preacher will say "If you want to go to heaven ask your wife, if she says you will go that means you are very lucky, but if she says you are not going, you have to plead with her because she meant every word she says"
In the school of marriage your choice is your life. Your partner in marriage determines your place in destiny, because your partner is like your magnet drawing you to God or drawing you to Hell. A lot of colorful destinies have been terminated as a result of wrong partners.
You need the favour of God to make the right decision in settling down. Making a decision in marriage will either make you or mar you.
It takes a woman five minutes to destroy all you have built, so be careful of the woman you choose to marry. Some get married for the wrong reasons like lust, infatuation some just like the sound of calling them Mrs. Some marry because of the fear of remaining unmarried, some gets marry only because of regular sex and simply because their friends are married.
Stop copying others because if you do, you will only become a photocopy and not an original. For the bible says "For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise" (2 Corinthians 10:12).
Don't marry because of pressure. Most women make mistakes by giving themselves a date for marriage without a proper decision and prayers. Sometimes, our parents are the major causes of pressure. They want you to bring a man home quickly giving you a date to settle down. You must understand that your parent do not have the power to choose for you.
No one should be allowed to use your destiny to settle friendship.
To hook on to someone just because you want to get married as soon as possible, can be very dangerous. “He that hasteth with his feet sinneth”.
Some marry because they eventually got pregnant in the process of trying to know each other. The fact that you made the mistake of getting pregnant for somebody when you were still dating and the issue of wedding has not come up between the two of you, does not mean you should be coerced into marriage. And some marry out of foolish expectation. "When we eventually gets married he we change" that is a big lie, because marriage does not change people it rather makes them worst.
Remember, choice is more powerful than destiny.
In a relationship where your heart is the driver and your brain is the passenger, accident is inevitable.
Dear Steemians, beware. Take heed, that you may not enter into the trap of the devil and marry the wrong person.
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