Get married online, or how I searched for my ideal on the classifieds site?
Among my circle of friends, there is not clear to me to the depths of the soul stereotype or even prejudice that Dating in the Dnieper on ad sites – this is a kind of entertainment that has nothing to do with finding a partner for a serious relationship? and even more so to create a full-fledged family. In my experience, I have seen that this is not the case. During the week I met three different men whose profiles interested me and with one of them I now live a happy life. Now I want to tell you about why I do not consider it luck and share my experience.
How to start looking for the one?
At first, a conscious decision was made not to be alone. This does not mean that after registering on Dating sites of my native Dnipro, I was ready to hang myself on the neck of everyone I met, not at all. I determined that I was ready to let another person into my life.
Even there was a moment when all the pros and cons of life in a relationship were written by me on paper. So I realized that despite the advantages, there are a lot of disadvantages to living together. Then I wondered what it was that put me off men. Restrictions in the form of stamps, templates and fears were found at once. At some point it became important to convince myself that there are somewhere decent and suitable men, and the world does not consist of only rude, selfish and narcissists, which I came across more than once when I tried to embark on a more or less serious relationship.
Draw your ideal
An important stage for me was the preparation of a clear description of what my young man should be. I knew exactly who I was going to meet to live happily ever after. By the way, on Dating sites in Dnepropetrovsk, not so many registered those who could interest me, so the fact that the search for the perfect man will take a week was a surprise. I've always been attracted to smart guys who follow a healthy lifestyle. And have a clear idea of what they want from life. It was also important to find a partner who would be the same age. Even if he wasn't as wealthy as the older men I'd met earlier.
Confidence
Attitude is very important when Dating to create a family on the Internet, but also in real life. I had a concrete certainty that somewhere in our city there was a young man waiting for me-just need to find him. About scammers and perverts, I did not think much, although there is no denying that there are a lot of them on Dating sites, it is impossible. I've made it clear that I'm not interested and not concerned. I understood that you need to love yourself, your life and your present – it is necessary to achieve inner harmony. "I'm a happy woman, I'm fine. I am ready to share my happiness with others" - such an attitude I created for myself.
Looking for the right questionnaire
In the pictures you can tell a lot about a person, so intuition will work great in reviewing dozens of profiles of registered boys from the Dnieper. There were decent young men, but that wasn't it. After the first day spent on the site, I met with a student with whom there was almost nothing to talk about. The second option was a guy who works as a taxi driver, but he also did not catch me. Then after a small hiatus was even a few meetings with interesting and not very characters until among several tens of questionnaires in section "familiarity" on obyava.ua (popular Bulletin Board in Ukraine) I did not get one, fateful. A curly-haired boy of my age, a military man, who had filled out a resume written with a touch of humor-he interested me even before the personal meeting more than any of the previous men.
How did it go
We met for the first time after a week of correspondence in a cafe. When I went to the meeting, nervous as ever. The guy was the description of my ideal. Even during communication in the network, it became clear that the young man is not devoid of a sense of humor. It turned out that we have converged interests, we both love the same movies, books and music. Just a wonderful coincidence of tastes and views on life.
Meeting in the open did not disappoint me. As he sat on the couch, his every word came out like a song. I didn't even always take his words in, I just enjoyed looking at him. Within ten minutes, I realized that the feeling of love had consumed me completely. The world that was outside our table at the time of this meeting just ceased to exist for me. I woke up only after he pulled my hand and offered to walk in the Park. We walked along the embankment for a long time, ate ice cream and kissed in the Park on a bench. Still agreed to mark anniversaries, in addition to the two day when his profile got on Craigslist.
Now, after almost a year in the relationship everything is fine, filed an application for marriage.