Everyone yern for love, everyone what to love and be loved, but are literally making it difficult for others to love them equally or more.
I have been one of those guys that my friends consider to be so lucky to have found a good woman very early in life.
I always say it is not about what we would wantor who we think is the kind of person we would want to date, but who we can endure, who understands us, who values us or even tries to value us.
you may not likely get 100/100 from your partner, but you should be ready to put in the work and hold on to the things you can have even if its 50/100 and then try to see how to work on improving the number.
LOVE is hard, LOVE is difficult but then LOVE is sweet