Have you heard of the twin flame/soulmate dichotomy? I just started learning about these concepts and I must say it is some powerful stuff. Here are a couple definitions that only begin to explain this profound way of looking at relationships.
"A soul mate is when you become the source of your own fulfillment and in response to you receiving your own love you can manifest a balanced counterpart to provide you what you have already given you yourself with the ability to give them what they have acknowledged and realized they are worthy of receiving." - Matt Kahn
"What is a twin flame? Essentially every one of your ex-lovers, ex-best friends, ex-roommates, etc. who helped you to bring a massive amount of your triggers, insecurities, weaknesses and ego to the surface. Twin flames break your heart into so many pieces that it has no other choice but to open wider. So while you feel that this damn person brings chaos, imbalance and heart break into your life, they are actually there to help you come into your highest good." - Macey Tomlin
My takeaway is that at the end of the day, it all comes back to self love and being open to receiving what the universe and the humans you are in relationship have to offer your growth. Rather than resisting the pain and struggle, embrace it and learn from it. In doing so you raise your vibration and can ultimately find a place of inner peace. Twin Flames, while they may be chaotic and cause much pain, should ultimately be a source of gratitude for us as they help us to grow in to the infinitely powerful human beings we truly are.
My good friend Macey Tomlin recently wrote an article here on Steemit about this very topic. She does an excellent job of simplifying this somewhat complex topic.
Read it here: Twin Flames VS Soul Mates
Check out this lecture by Matt Kahn who has done excellent work to share this relationship dichotomy with the world.
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