What is love?
Is there any perfect love?
Love is selfless, unconditional, doesn't compromise, limitless, flawless.
Sometimes, people mistake lust for love, no! They aren't the same thing
Perfect love casted fear
Ever wondered why some people are just too lovely, i mean when you see them you're feeling jealous at times?
Yes! There's no perfect love without Christ, God is love therefore there's no way a man will know love beyond His knowledge of God. Even when we were yet sinners, God so loved us and sent His only begotten Son to come and died for our reconciliation back to The Father. The liquid love of God is that unconditional Love, extravagant love, unwanted yet excessive love, that love which knows no bound. We're the first beneficiaries of His love which is why we can love perfectly. The biggest truth is that Love doesn't hurt. Love is humble, meek, temperance and is diligent.
In a relationship?
Loving and caring for each other isn't a misery, its learning each others shortcomings and adjusting to their shortcomings. Helping each other stand firm and appreciating one another in all circumstances.
SEE EACH OTHER AS YOUR CHILDREN
If you had a daughter or a Son, they always make you angry, misbehave and sometimes look as though they don't want to be corrected, no matter how terrible they are, you always give them the opportunities for adjustment. Times when you'll beat them, talk to them, correct them yet still love them. This is not different from relationships, when you see each other as your children, you'll learn to accept some faults from each other. Never be too boring for the other. Learn to always give attention to each other. It might be too sweet and interesting when it's new but that newness will not always be there. You'll get use to the good looks, the same smile, the same face and the same person but when these thoughts comes to your mind just remember one thing, the first day you met that person. Remember the initial excitement and appreciation, this way you will always value the person. Every man can love perfectly.