Falling in love feels great, whether you are a guy or a girl. It is one of those moments when everything around you gets beautiful and cheerful.
But at the same time, losing in love or getting declined by a girl is just as intense, only painful.
So do you love a girl, but do not know how to tell her you love her?
There are two circumstances here;
• Firstly, you love her but you are not dating her.
• Secondly, both of you are dating each other but you want to let her know that you are really serious about the relationship.
If you’re already dating a girl and you are just confused about timing those three special words (I LOVE YOU), do not worry one bit.
The three words "I LOVE YOU"
How to tell a girl you love her when you’re not dating her
As scary as proposing your love to a girl may seem, it’s actually the easy part. Getting the girl to like you and fall for you is actually the hard part.
Contrary to what most of your friends may say, if you like a girl, do not just ask her out. You are leaving your hopes to fate and chance. And it is the wrong way to make a move.
After all, why leave your heart out on the streets waiting for sheer luck to cross your path when there are better ways to go about it?
If you want to tell a girl that you love her, make sure you know she already loves you and will probably answer in your favor.
Below are tips on how to let yourself into a girl's heart ♥ before making a move
1 Be her special friend
You’re probably her friend already and are just confused about letting her know your real intentions. So your first move should be to warm yourself into a special place in her heart. Be a special friend to her, help her out when she needs a hand, spend time with her when you can, and have conversations with her, both intellectual and fun.
Be very close to her and always make a laugh
Do not behave like a bad boy or a guy who throws his weight around. It works well with girls you do not know, not with friends. If you ignore a girl who is already a friend, she will think you are a jerk or she will probably drift away from you.
Your only concern should be to avoid becoming a best friend instead of a lover
2 Talk late into the night
If you’re wondering how to tell a girl you like her, talking late into the night with her can work wonders for your budding relationship. Find reasons and excuses to talk to her when she is already in bed.
The relaxed pace of a long conversation late into the night almost always leads to something more personal and intimate even if both of you are just talking funny at the start of the conversation.
If that is not happening already, add a few personal questions in those conversations that will steer the conversation into relationships. Topics like relationships, personal stories, and what she likes in a guy will create the perfect setting to make your intentions clear.
3 Take her out on dates
You are just a friend now, but if you have been looking for ways to spend time with her and speak to her often, you will start to see that you had already occupy a special place in her heart.
If you feel like she enjoys your company, it’s time you take the next step. Tell her about a great place you have tried or a new movie that is in town and ask her to accompany you. You are still a friend, so you can urge her to accompany you even if she is thinking twice!
Once you are out with her, treat her like a date and behave like how you would on a date.
But now that she likes your company, avoid being a pushover or being too easily available for her. She likes spending time with you already, so you need to make her miss you when you are not around so she is eager to spend time with you.
4 Flirt with her subtly
You are speaking to her late into the night, you are an important part of her life and you are going out on dates with her. If you have got these first few steps right, you are already there in the right zone.
But now you have to make it rather obvious that you are attracted to her.
Look for opportunities to flirt with her. If you’re worried about making an obvious move, start in a subtle manner by text flirting. It is safe and even if she thinks you are acting weird, you can always make it seem like a joke.
5 Watch for reciprocation
You’re practically dating already! But are you the only one making all the calls and planning all the dates or is she asking you out too? Sometimes, the girl you like may just be coy and shy. Or at other times, she may just be too accommodating to turn you down. Find out if she is interested in you too.
If she is not calling you or asking you out as often as you are, ignore her for a couple of days or cut down on the number of calls you make. By ignoring her for a few days, she will inevitably start thinking of you or realizing just how much she’s addicted to you
6 Make her like you
Now you’ve done all that you can do to warm her up, and set the field to tell her that you love her.
But are you certain she loves you already?
And once you are certain she loves being with you, tell her what is in your mind on a special date with a few lines similar to the one mentioned below.
“You know there’s something I’ve come to realize over the last few weeks that we’ve been spending time together. I don’t know if this is the right way to say it… but I really enjoy spending time with you
I think I’m falling for you, more with each passing day… and more than that, I really think I’m in love with you…”
Understanding how to tell a girl you love her is easy, but knowing the answer before you even pop the questions is not. Take your time, plan it right, and you will never go wrong!
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