Sounds like you girls are at a real disadvatage when it comes to finding the right guy. However, I don’t think it’s just NYC. In many places it is tough for a girl to find a well-heeled, hard working, good-looking man who respects women. If you add that he needs to be fit, interesting, attentive, and funny then the numbers are already shrinking. Throw in the necessary requirement for him to own a centre of town penthouse, plus a country mansion, and you getting close to a pool of zero.