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So, I got to find out today that a friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend so I decided to share my experience with two ex girlfriends, ex because one of them broke up with me and I had to break up with another... These occurred because of difference in meaning to relationships and different points of views.
Relationship has a wide range of definitions, from personal experiences to dictionary meanings.
It might mean a connection or association between people, it might be the condition of been related either by blood or other means (marriage).
Relationships also exist in sexual form which is a romantic involvement between two individuals which might or might not lead to marriage. Among youths, relationship is one of the most important and vital state in Our existence As it involves a mutual agreement and understanding between two people who have Come to love each other with or without commitment, to care and take burdens off each other.
Sometimes relationships among youths do go wrong like mine did in so many ways, this has altered the idea of trust in people. Most people believe that relationship is an avenue to learn different ways of pleasing a partner in order to make their marriage life in future a successful and peaceful one, yes that is part of it and also some others believe it's about having sex with one person only and having fun by pleasing each other at will and as desired and as fate will have it, they may end up as couples but if not, they go their separate ways.
Like saying goes,"don't lay your egg in one basket"most people believe dating or being in a relationship with just one person is a very big risk to take with mindsets Of been heart broken at any time. They prefer dating two guys or two girls with the mindset of relying on one of them if the other one falls out of the relationship for some reasons (money,personality,selfish interest )Most of this relationship among youths mostly occurr In tetiary institutions in which most end up well or don't at all
Finally, relationship among youths has a big advantage. Finding a partner,unpay your mentality and sense of humour, building your confidence and Hailey someone to rely on when trouble comes e. t. c And also has big disadvantages such as a disturbed heart,depression,lost of focus immortality.
Importance of relationships
- To have a partner that reminds you how awesome you are and lift you up
- Having a safe place to vent and share your feelings
- Being with someone who will sweep you off your feet not step on them
- Feeling totally cool saying no,and really exited when you want to say yes
- Having your friends and family support your relationship as much as you do