We have all loved one another, and as we all know, love is something very beautiful, magnificent and even inexplicable at times. The feeling or being in love with that person that drives us crazy, that takes us to another dimension is a very beautiful experience, but just as love can be so magical, sometimes it hurts a lot, and it takes us from being in that state to another where we feel sad or bad, for not being able to be with that someone, for different reasons, or simply the love has ended in one of the parties.
Today I write this publication, for those people who have had to accept the rupture of a relationship, and that despite being a difficult or desperate situation, with this you will realize many things, that despite loving you must put the reasoning first before the feelings. Yes, and for many it is difficult to accept, but doing so would be the first step to get ahead.
To break up with your partner, there must be a main trigger, be it an infidelity, an impossible love, a toxic love, or simply a love for you but I can not be with you. It is also important to mention that for a relationship to work there must be respect and trust, if any of it is lost, it is already a lost relationship.
Infidelity is a very common situation to trigger a rupture, enough reasons to leave it or leave it, because with this the two mentioned above are broken, respect and trust are destroyed and it is already a love that dies automatically, although there are couples that they forgive each other and decide to get ahead is very unlikely that this relationship has fruit, because there will always be a reason to doubt and it becomes a frustrating love and this is not life.
Toxic love is where you want to succeed with your partner, however, there are reasons to realize that you are not happy, either because your partner celebrates you, it is difficult for you to do the things you normally did in your daily life, no longer have social life or get upset about anything minimal. This is also not life, because you are adapting and limiting yourself to the things you want to do and he or she does not allow it, although it is true that in relationships there must be a balance between both, but neither should limit the dreams of the other, nor truncate the spaces of each, which gradually deteriorates the relationship.
Sometimes, we want someone, and maybe that person does it with the same strength, but maybe there may be external factors that do not allow us to be together, or simply the routines of daily life hinder the meeting between both, and either of the two must make the decision to break because sooner or later one of the two will be frustrated, or it could also be a relationship of lovers, where there is another person involved, and yes, this often happens a lot, committing that married people is a reality that where many identify, and if only moments are for short times is not life either, because you want that person to give you back what you need and he or she can not correspond to you as you wish.
The best thing for this case, is to leave it, because you are not happy, only at times and the idea is that you are in all your moments. This is when you know that even though you love, you must let go of something that does not belong to you. Remember that this world is immense and each person is a different universe to know.
The center of all this, is not "forget" your ex, as the title says, because you really can not forget someone, it is true that everything is in the past, but the memories, experiences and details are not forgotten. Therefore, to your ex much less, but you can do something, and it is to overcome, yes! How? starting with yourself or yourself, if that person decided, or you decided to break up and things could not be resolved at the time, it is because maybe you need time to heal, or it is simply because each one must take different courses, but in this case, you matter, you must love yourself or yourself, take it as an opportunity for you, to grow, to learn and to know new things, to do something you always wanted to do. Dream and make that dream come true, cry and suffer is valid, but only momentary.
Many believe that writing to your ex is healthy, and let me tell you that no, you hurt yourself more or at least that you have remained as friends, but this almost never happens, because no matter how much you do not see an equal person after a relationship. There are many who prefer to get away to heal, and even eliminate all gifts, letters and photos of their partner, because this has nothing wrong, in reality, is part of the improvement, and if it is really necessary do it. Dedicate yourself to yourself, and take your time to heal, when you are ready, you will be able to give yourself the opportunity to love again.