Exciting! Hot!! Superb!!!
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Can you confidently say these about your relationship? Most partners may not be confident to use the words above to qualify the state of their relationship when the infatuation stage has passed. At the infatuation stage, both partners would be all over each other, showering lots of love, practicing public display of affection and other romantic acts that would make friends envy their relationship. Experts believe that once this stage of infatuation is over in a relationship, the excitement and spice may reduce.
No one is pleased with a boring and dry relationship. We all crave for the excitement and scintillating effects that comes with a lovely moment with our loved ones. Check out these tips to ignite that dying connection between you and your partner today.
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1.) Detach from your gadgets (smartphone, TV, video games etc) as it may hinder you from spending quality time with each other. You may pay less attention to what the other person is saying when you are too addicted to them.
2.) Think about something new that interest the two of you. When this is in place, you would have something to anticipate about and as a result of this you maintain that spice that was in your relationship when you started off. For instance, decide to go to the gym every weekend or to go to the movies twice in a month (depending on your schedule).
3.) Make your intentions known to each other. The two of you are not gods or superhumans that know what the other person is thinking. Most times, men are afraid to do some things because of the fear of not getting it right. You could ease him off the tension by telling him exactly what you want and make him know he's best at doing it. Request for a massage, for a kiss on your forehead, for his assistance in the kitchen etc.
4.) We all love surprises and it creates an indelible mark on our heart that we may not forget in a long time. Partners could spice up their relationship by surprising each other in whatever way that interest them.
5.) This may sound weird but it's actually true. There's a saying that we don't know the value of someone until we miss them or until we don't see them every time (paraphrased). In short, spend time apart. During this period, you'd reminisce about the memorable moments you've shared together and hope to share more of it with each other.
Some other ways to spice your relationship is to:
- Start afresh by trying to get to know each other again
- Watch erotic and adult movies together
- Write sexy and romantic text messages
- Be more intimate by touching each other, hug more, kiss more
These points above should help you add spice to your relationship and deepen the ties that exist between you and your partner.