Are you a jealous type?
I hope you're not!
Jealousy is the quickest and one of the surest ways to get DUMPED.
Jealousy is a big sign of insecurity. It indicates that you are lacking in confidence. By acting in a jealous way you are essentially "telling her" that you do NOT feel worthy of her love... and that you are worried that she is going to find one of the many guys out there who are "better than" you.
Not even to mention the fact that it is an incredibly annoying personality trait!
Never forget: women are attracted to CONFIDENCE in men. If your woman realizes that you are lacking in self confidence then she WILL lose respect for you. And, if she does not respect you, she can not love you. And every time that you act like a jealous loser, you lose more of that respect.
Now please don not try to tell me that you are the "jealous type" not because of a lack of confidence, but because you love and care about her so much. Or just because you can not trust her. I'm not buying that... and she won't either.
Jealousy is about YOU / and your feelings of insecurity - your lack of confidence - your feeling of not being good enough. And it is your problem. It has nothing, and I mean nothing, to do with her. (And if you just can't trust her, then why are you wasting your time with her. Find someone that you trust!)
So what do you do if you really ARE the jealous type?
Well... since you know that acting in this jealous fashion will push her away from you, and acting in a confident fashion will suck her toward you (by increasing her respect for you), then...
... just ACT CONFIDENT.
Let her do what she wants. Give her the #freedom she wants. Do not complain when she wants to go out with her friends. Smile when she says she is going to have lunch with her ex-boyfriend. Encourage her to go have fun at that male strip club. Proudly display the confidence you have to her.
And just know that ACTING CONFIDENT in these circumstances (which does make most men jealous) will actually suck her into you. With this, you are essentially turning a negative personality trait [jealousy] into a positive personality trait [self-confidence].
You should really welcome these types of situations and see them as OPPORTUNITIES to show your confidence to her... and to draw her closer to you.
So the next time you get the feeling of jealousy, and you are starting to worry, and you are starting to get anxious, and nervous -- just remember this post and think...
"Awesome! This is a great opportunity for me to show my confidence, to set myself apart from all those other guys, and to blow her mind."
Powerful Stuff!