Having the feeling that something just doesn't feel right and in spite of it you do what is right for yourself, it's what I'm talking about.
First of all, knowing that you can't handle certain situations in life is totally ok. But the thing that you never be comfortable with is that by not doing those things it makes you "inadequate"
How can you get rid of that feeling?
Because you may think that you're doing great in life but suddenly someone comes in your life to tell you that you did wrong, that you're not good enough, that whatever you've trying to do it won'twork. In relationships, work, school, and most of all, IN YOUR OWN FREAKING MIND.
And how as a man can I overcome that?
You, my friend, will become a super conductor of emotions. That is what being a real man means, despite of all good or bad circumstances. You are grounded to your inner core and self and you do not resist any kind of emotions, especially the negative ones. You accept them alone, and do nothing about it, this is what is really difficult to understand.
You might feel that those negative emotions constraint your belly, your back legs and you feel NUMB and don't know what to do. And the answer is NOTHING. Allow those emotions, feel them fully, don not question them and let them go.
It's a process that will make you more grounded, and not a single girl or any person will get on your skin. Because your emotions do not run wild and you are strong enough to recognize that you are their MASTER.