A step forward in strategy is worth a hundred steps forward in management.
"When starting a business, it is much easier to increase 10-fold than 10 percent."
Why? When you want to grow by 10%, you want to get natural growth on the original path. The logic remains unchanged and the bloody battle is not easy.
However, if you want to achieve a 10-fold increase, it is not on the original road. You have to find a new road itself.
Thinking hard and trying constantly, as long as an optimized strategy is found, it may increase 10 times in an instant.
In fact, this is a train of thought. When starting a business, it is more important to choose than to work hard. More important is speculation, not just execution.
With my "thousand ten" logic to understand, one hundred (strategic) step up is worth one hundred (management) steps up.
Never attack each other's motives.
I once told the team that there is an "advanced" ability. I don't know if you have studied it before.
For example, there is a person who is guiding "behavior" with "malice", which is not good for you. What do you do?
To confront each other face to face? Why did you hurt me? Did you do it on purpose? Still, denying it? I have proof!
Is this ok? Sure。 But this is a "low-level" approach.
This may stop and stop his harm to you, but since then you have one more enemy.
No one thinks he is a bad person, even if what he does is bad, he must have found a good reason for himself.
When you expose him, he must start from his inner cognitive coordination and regard you as a bad person.
In this way, he can sleep. This kind of "bad people bear grudges" story has been made into numerous movies.
"Advanced" people will not do this. Senior people know that I can never attack your motives.
Once you attack, even if you win, you set off a time bomb.
Senior people will communicate like this: I notice what you have done recently and what you have done (behavior). I know that you are for good intentions (motivation). I can see that you are still hiding it from me. I am very grateful. Thank you.
Although this kindness did not really work and even had some bad influence on me, I am still very grateful.
If you can do that, it will be even better. But anyway, thank you.
Insist on, insist on, the other party will think, oneself do this thing, is out of goodwill, oneself is a good man (this is the key).
Then, for the same reason of cognitive coordination, he will modify his behavior to make what he does conform to the motivation of goodwill.
In this way, he can sleep. This is the advanced practice.
If you say that the other party is a bad person, the other party will become a bad person.
If you say the other person is a good person, the other person will become a good person.
It sounds amazing, but this is the power of "cognitive coordination".
Using cognitive coordination to change people is an "advanced" style of play.
Final words
The upward road is usually hard and even lonely.
The road to success and the road to failure are usually not the choices before us.
This choice is not difficult, we will all choose the "road to success".
The difficulty is that the "road to success" and the "easy road" are usually before us.
The easy road is always so attractive, so easy and comfortable.
As a result, in order to choose the "easy road", we will tell ourselves: perhaps, this road also leads to success?
Choosing an easy road may even make you addicted like taking drugs. Once you find a logical and consistent reason for yourself and gain cognitive coordination, you will become more and more dependent and finally cannot escape.