Be like the wolf, strong in solitude and in solidarity with the herd- and as the wolf, I eat everything I hunt.
The Problem of Men of Today
Day after day I hear friends, family, or completely strangers yelling about something that they can stop just using enough courage. But they (and people in general) are afraid, afraid of being judged, afraid of fail or not being enough. That lack of courage is the principal problem with men of today- and courage is the most important virtue than a man should make grow. It’s the motor of your manly life.
Another problem is feminism, but not feminism itself- feminism men are the problem, women are completely able to make her way without us, if you want to help so be a man, because to be honest, mostly of feminism men are just in that for earn the sympathy of women, there is no honor on that.
To make it worse, all those movies, books and TV shows are confusing your mind. I’m not saying stop watching TV, but you need to have a solid identity before using the skills that you learn watching it. Think in seduction, all those shows, movies and books teach you that to approach a girl you need to use manipulative behavior, acting as an innocent guy with no intentions, that’s lie- do you have intentions, you want to go out with her, you want to kiss her, you want to fuck her- and the worst part, women need to react to those behaviors hiding their real nature for the fear to be judged as a slut.
All those problems lead you to a bad life, because you are not honest, not even with yourself.
Your family and friends maybe has told you to look for a job, marry a woman, have children, but you want to conquer the galaxy, but you can’t because everyone are telling you that’s stupid, it’s not a real goal. Fuck them.
The Men of Before
Imagine if William Wallace’s mother should have say the same to him, and he, as a modern man of today, should have listen to her. Exactly, one of the best stories about courage would never existed.
Think in all those men who has died defending their ideals, their purposes or their love. The world would be boring without them. So stand! Defend your purposes! But what are your purposes?
The Ideal of Perfect Man
Being good at being a man is hard, everyday you’re going to read, listen- or if you lucky- see a manly man than you. Always. That’s why the perfect man is just an ideal. But as a man, it’s one of your purposes follow that ideal.
Being a man means to have a solid identity, who you really are? What do you want in life? What do you allow of people, of yourself? What are your values? Are they taking you to your path? Once you know that, you’re going to be full of energy in your life, because now you have passion to live, now you know what you want, what you deserve, and you’re going to fight as hard as you can.
Start writing about you, what makes you you? What do you think is right and bad for you? Also begin to learn those skills you always wanted to learn- steemit is full of tutorials! - Step by step, you’re going to start to lead your own life, as the man you are.