When Building Relationships, Parental Rest is Everything
- When building a relationship with someone, especially for a serious relationship of marriage, it is certain that everyone wishes to build a relationship with genuine conscience. The hope, this relationship not only be a serious relationship between two people that you and your spouse but also your family and the couple's family. Consciously or not, a happy relationship is a relationship that gets the blessing not only from the ruler of the universe but also the blessing of the parents.
A saying goes that the blessing of a parent is the blessing of God. Without the blessing of a parent in a relationship, one or two things in the relationship will not be comfortable, happy and serene. Make no mistake, the inconvenience may happen because God has not given his blessing to an ongoing relationship because God has not seen the blessing of the couple's parents.
Without Parents Restu Keeps Happy, Really?
In many cases, many couples marry and build relationships on the basis of deep love and forget the blessings of parents. Many consider that married for love even though not sanctioned parents will remain happy. Unfortunately, this assumption is not entirely true. Many couples are finally separated because they do not get the blessing of parents. Not a few couples are always haunted by guilt, fear and hate because their relationship never get blessing. Also, many couples lose their own family because of the importance of love without blessing and this often makes the couple suffer and hurt.
In life, parents are the most important people who also have a great deal of influence on our lives. Parents, are also people who are sent by God to look after us and care for us well since we were babies to become a successful person as an adult.
Whatever and however parental treatment we are, we should still be grateful to have them. Because basically, no parents are not good to his children. For that reason, in every religion a child is always advised and obliged to worship the parents and always ask his blessing when they want to do anything. Moreover, when we want to build a new love and family in life.
Parents Have Reasons Why Not Giving Restu
When parents do not give blessing to their child's relationships, it is certain that parents have good reasons. The reasons can be children and couples are two different people beliefs, parents have a better view of the view of children, parents know that with someone who really loved the child will not be happy, morals are also the responsibility of the prospective child is still questionable or not good in the eyes of parents and so on.
We must be sure that the instinct of the parents is always strong and what he decides is really for our good. Even if it is when a relationship with someone we have not get the blessing of parents, talk about this with patience and polite and better still. Reassure parents that what our choices will be best for us and without their blessing, that choice can be very painful to us.
But, if parents still do not give his blessing, try to always be patient and tawakal. Believe that by worshiping parents, it will be better and make us happy. However, in establishing and building a relationship, the blessing of the parents is everything and without their blessing, there will be no blessing from the Creator.