…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5 and part 6
After all the beating and all the fight he gave her and that happened between them, they made up, even had sex; and he took her money, rode her car and the cycle began all over again. It was in the course of all these that he made a sex tape with her, and now he's threatening to release it on the eve of her wedding. OUCH!
In this kind of scenario you can understand if she has to assume the worst. She can assume the ex will release it, she can assume the video will even go viral, and to make it worse, she is a well-known person, who has achieved some level of success. There's no point asking why someone or anyone would choose to do this on the eve of her wedding. Evil has no rational basis and this is why we call it evil. Her ex-boyfriend is just evil which is why he doesn't want her to be happy. A lot of people can’t handle the fact that a lady dumps them for a better person; someone who doesn’t exploit or hit her and even after just her body.
A lot depends on this soon to be husband. No man wants to hear this kind of news on the eve of his wedding. He would generally assume there are many hidden things she has not even made mention. His head would spin and he would feel really embarrassed. This is why courtship is important as it is a process of getting to know more about each other before deciding if you can be together.
A lot of people try to bury what they have done in the past, thinking if they open up, the person will leave. If he or she leaves, then they are not the best for you in the first place. I also understand the place of fears; where you tell that person and that person leaves and he or she starts spreading the mess in your past. This is why when you noticed you are dealing with a baby-man or a baby-lady, just let them go. Trust those people with little information first and see how they react. That’s the essence of courtship, test their resolve and character because who they are will definitely come to the fore when tested. She can’t know if she could have trusted this guy with the information or not until she tried, and now she will have to find out the hard way; on the eve of their wedding. The question remains; **”How would he react?”
…to be continued…
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.