Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Good foundation in marriage guarantees happiness, because marriage comes from God, He's the originator of marriage. Legal marriage is vital to family happiness because it provides a sucure environment for raising children. Christians should obey traditional laws concerning the registration of marriage.
When marriage is properly arranged, God is happy because, His plan for the union between a man and a woman coming together as husband and wife is a permanent one, God never thought of divorce when He instituted the first marriage on earth, that's between Adam and Eve.
God wants husband and wife to be loyal to each other, He frown at divorce, that's God's view of marriage:
Malachi 2:16
For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.
KEYS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE
1 COMPLIMENTARY; Husband and wife should learn to care for each other by means of compliments, look beyond finding faults, and start praising each other lavishly.
2 SELF-SACRIFICING; The husband should be self sacrificing in his love for his wife; husband and wife should love each other unconditional.
3 FORGIVENESS; Since both the husband and wife are imperfect, they should understand that offences most come and be prepared to forgive each other, when it happen.
The Bible says, Love covers multitude of sin.
SHOULD WE DIVORCE OR QUIT WHEN MARRIAGE IS PASSING THROUGH ROCKY STAGE
If your marriage is passing a hard time, it's not a time to call it a quit, rather it's high time to come together and treat each other With love.
in fact there is never a good time to call marriage a quit.
Always be ready to make adjustment, bury your prides, and cultivate the spirit of forgiveness as mentioned above, reflect on Gods views towards marriage, and always remember; Gods word never encouraged divorce or separation in marriage as way of solving marriage problems.
1 Corinthians 13:4-5 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
STEPS TO SAVE A BREAKING MARRIAGE
COMMITTING TO GODS WORD CONCERNING MARRIAGE: The word of God has answers and solution to all our marriage trouble, (1timothy 3:16). Pray as you seek a way to a come back.
LET GO OF PREVIOUS ANGER: Accumulated anger can be dangerous when it is finally droves home or burst out, so try to vent your anger out in a tactical manner, and erase it from your mind completely.
Try to learn more of his or her love language.
Learn and respect his or her kind of person ------ that's knowing his/her temperament.
Do everything in love, never allow hatred to invade your heart towards one another.
DEVIL IS SERIOUSLY DESTROYING HOMES BECAUSE WHEN HE CAPTURE HOME, HE DESTROY THE FAMILY, THEN THE CHURCH AND NATION BECOMES A MESS.
WHEN WE GET IT RIGHT IN OUR HOMES.....WE GET IT RIGHT EVERYWHERE!.
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