A large majority of people were told as children not to touch their private parts. Todays sex therapist are reversing this notion. They are teaching people that sexual touching is not only permissible, but healthier for singles who might endanger themselves by sleeping around. For couples, mutual masturbation can remove the walls we build around ourselves. It can protect new lovers from exchanging bodily fluids until they make sure they are both free of HIV and other communicable diseases. Self stroking to the point of orgasm helps some women overcome repression as well as depression. Many woman discovere that vibrators help intensify orgasmic feeling and many women who never reached an orgasm find that they can stimulates themselves to the point of climaxing.
When people get into the bad habits of not touching themselves or others, they tend to dull their perception of pleasure and become alienated from life itself. After you perfect solo masturbation you can graduate to mutual masturbation. Be freely aware of all nature wonders, as you enjoy the results of your own touching and the feel of masculinity in contrast to feminine feeling.
We only get in life what we ask for, and it is no longer chic to be used by a man as a receptacles in one sided selfish sex. That's what prostitution is all about, a business for one, and pleasure for the other.