Our life is full of happy moments that pass quickly as we always pretend, in fact, it passes like any other time, like moments of anger, sadness, waiting, the whole time passes at the same speed .. Searching for a general feeling is a transient feeling that depends on temporary conditions, meaning that you feel bored or sad You are automatically looking for something that rejoices you and helps you get out of those negative feelings that you have.
But those who have been professions of happiness, are they really looking for happiness ?!
In fact, no, for two reasons. The first is that a permanent run after happiness is like running after a bubble that is willing to catch it. It is out of reach!
The second is that those who claim to be unhappy and that they have spent half their lives searching for happiness, they are deluded, what they are actually searching for is not happiness, but rather the meaning and purpose of their lives .. they run in search of a meaningful life ..
Ask yourself; why do I live? What should I replace after my departure? What do I do in my life? Is what I really do a good thing ?!
If you find answers to these questions, you will find your way to happiness. It is not so easy to sit quietly, contemplating and hesitating: “What do I want to do in my life?” Then you will find the answer in its moment!
Unless these questions have an effect on yourself in the form of a change, or a desire to change, at least, you are wasting your time in vain!
You rate yourself
Does what others think about you scare you? Do their opinions and impressions on you impede you from moving forward? I bet you shake your head "Yes"
Then it is time to change your mindset ..
First, you have to be better than the person you were yesterday. This desire to improve yourself will make you believe that you are a good person, strong, and smart enough.
The important thing is to prove this to yourself and not to others, if you are convinced of this, everyone around you will be convinced that you are really a wonderful person, do not wait for an evaluation from anyone until you feel the value of yourself, if you do not feel that from inside you will never be satisfied if you throw poems in you!
It is true that the words and opinions of others have a real impact on yourself, negative or positive, but this does not mean that talking about you negatively, means that you are really a bad person, it is not the end of the world when you face rejection from someone.
It is great to receive flattery and praise from others, but simply this does not always happen, especially if you intend to make a real difference in life, you will find many of those who disagree with you, those who ignore you, who strive to refute your thoughts and efforts, then look your further away from them, Keep your circus....
