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http://terengganutimes.com/lelaki-nekad-bunuh-jirannya-yang-asyik-bertanya-bila-nak-kahwin
Baru baru ini saya terbaca article ini di facebook. Seriously, inilah yang paling menakutkan kerana soalan ini pastinya pahit untuk dijawab bagi mereka yang belum berumahtangga macam saya yang masuk 4 series ni. Banyak soalan cepu emas. Makcik makcik akak akak berjemaah bertanya. Belum lagi yang over busy body sampat telinga merah mendengar ejekan, kejian dan umpatan mereka. Auchhhhh sakitnya tu di sini...
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Tapi meme diatas sangat lucu I tak boleh tahan ooooo 😂😂😂. Being single myself at the age of 40, I often were asked this question everytime I go to weddings, party, reunion even in funerals. Like helloooo... Can they please stop asking this question already??!
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Now I have this meme and article, I will always keep it in my phone so the next time people asked me this ancient question I just let them read this hehehehe.
Funny but I hope they understand. My personal experience, people always typecast and stereotyped me as being tragically flawed, overly picky, or inflexible or I put my eyes behind my head (duh) WRONG... it is not true.
I do want to go on a date. I love dating. It was fun. But, I wasn't settling just because everybody is married and I am still single. I don't want to risk a bad marriage by compromising on essentials and I definitely didn't need a guy who is rich (but if he is rich why not kan?). I don't need him to look like Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp or Kanye West. I dont really care what he drove. I just need a confident man, who accept me without cutting my wings, knows to play guitar and treat me like queen. He who don't have trust issues and be loyal like my dog Oddie. (my kind of man).
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Even my mama nags all the time for me to look for a husband. But I am happy right now. I love my freedom, but I'm just not so sure that it's someone who belongs in a marriage, or even a serious relationship.True, i cannot denied that being lonely is hard but relax bah. Being 40 is fabulous.
Will I settled down in the near future. I am not going to lie, I might just randomly choose any guy my mama or my bff's introduced to me. Maybe I should try tinder or datesmith...Lols...
Being a spinters is not that bad at all. Just need to maintain my skin and eat more chicken feet extra collagen. hahaha. I don't know. But hey who cares bah. Chillaxing now with my BINTANG. I think about it again tomorrow if its not raining hihihihi.
I settled with BINTANG 😘😘.
XOXO,
kilathecla