So lets broach a highly taboo topic here and break it open for closer inspection shall we? I always try to have my finger on the pulse when it comes to alternative healing and health. It has been a remarkable journey for me after years of not really looking after myself and illness starting to knock at my door. I knew I had to change and thankfully I did, and I feel fitter and healthier now than I did in my mid 20s.
I have been down quite a few rabbit holes from intermittent fasting to urine therapy, then last year I came across a You Tube video where a guy was talking about this thing called NOFAP No what I asked myself? What it basically means is no PMO (porn, masturbation, or orgasms) What??? I hear you say. Just bare with me on this before you laugh it off as just another crazy notion of the alternative health scene!
There have been some great men throughout history that have lived by the theory of holding your seed. People such as Nicola Tesla, Albert Einstein, and Leonardo Da Vinci to name but a few. Mike Tyson and Muhammad Ali both swore that to be a better fighter you need to stop bashing the bishop! Well they didn't use those exact words but they lived by the rule of NOFAP. Now to be frank if its good enough for these men then it sounds like it will be good enough for me! In fact I know it is, thats because I have been practicing it on and off for the last year or so (currently at 3 months NOFAP this time around).
I can tell you now it makes a huge difference. Think about it when you FAP you throw away life force energy that is used to CREATE another human being! Thats huge! Anyone would miss that vital force just being thrown into a sock or something! I tell you now when you hold onto your seed and you work through the flat lines (almost like detox symptoms) you will feel an abundance of energy, the energy that would of ended up being willy nilly (excuse the pun) thrown away can now be harnessed into your purpose in life! I have found I have a huge surge of energy each day, my creative juices seem to flow a lot more freely too. That energy is being circulated around my body to be used for good in the World. A man without his purpose in life is like a bird without wings, could it be that so many men aren't flying because they are clipping their own wings by fapping?
The science behind it is that the semen you hold onto gets absorbed in other ways by your body, and so your output is much higher. Another positive aspect of this is confidence and lets say a certain magnetism. There are many videos out there saying that men that NOFAP attract the opposite sex a lot more easier, it would stand to reason because of the increased testosterone and they can pick up on that subconsciously. What I would say is if you're doing it for that reason alone then you're in it for the wrong reasons. I feel it should be used to go out into the World and do what you were born to do. NOFAP will give you that edge you need and the extra motivation. Again when you fap how much energy have you got to do anything? Not a lot, and you cant be bothered either! On top of that you're not feeding the evil porn industry which subjects women to just mere objects to be used for sex.
What I have noticed lately is there a HUGE amount of disinformation coming out to counter this theory in that it is said that by not masturbating you're increasing your chances of prostate cancer. You know what I say to that? Bollocks! Because I am doing this and I can tell the huge difference in how I feel.
The natural question people then ask is well what about sex? Apparently the research coming out is that if you're having an orgasm whilst having sex within a loving relationship then somehow its not the same loss. Personally that doesn't resonate with me so much, there are many ways that we can reach orgasm other than by penetration but thats a whole different blog and involves the research of tantric sex. I believe our seed is precious and we need to start viewing it as such. All I'd say guys is give it a shot! As I say its not all plain sailing, especially in the beginning when you're trying to combat carnal desires and then you hit low points, but if you can ride them out then feel how fired up you are for the challenges of daily life, sometimes there are just not enough hours in the day!
Please check out my vlog on NOFAP where I talk in more depth on the subject.
Tony Sayers
love, care, courage